I've been saddened by this as well lately. My baby turned 4 in March, and he's just not little like he used to be. I didn't think I'd be as sentimental as I am, but it breaks my heart that he's saying certain words correctly now rather than using his toddler-speak. There are so many other things I miss... I know how you are feeling. :grouphug:

It's easy to see why you adore him! He's a doll!

It has been a blessing to be able to come to this board and hear others' stories. I am so grateful. Thank you for taking the time to write and help me sort through this as I try to help my sister. I saw her today, and she is so pale, and just has this sadness about her. She asked if she could come over tomorrow to get out of her house. Of course I said yes. I'll be making her dinner while her dh works. Thanks again, ladies. Your words of encouragment have been perfect and have helped me to think of all angles.

Yes, both she & I believe there is a baby there once we learn we are pregnant, no matter how small. I will still follow her lead, of course.

That would be great... thank you!

Thank you, ladies; I knew I could come here to get the advice I need. I really appreciate the insight. I will definitely follow her lead & give her lots of love.

I haven't read all the responses, but I am also disgusted. It's this attitude in our society that makes me ill. I always think of the country song, We All Bleed Red because it's so true. What does it matter that we are different "colors"? Grrr.... Anyway, I hope you encounter better homeschoolers as you continue this journey. :grouphug:

My sister learned yesterday that she lost her baby (at 7 weeks). :sad: She is understandably sad and feeling overwhelmed. I don't have any experience in this area, and I don't really know anyone who does. How can I help her? I want to be there for her, but I'm feeling so inadequate. She is about 15 mins. away so I can go to her. I'm taking her son with me for the day while my other sister cooks and cleans for her. What else would be helpful?

I'm so sorry. I don't know how foster parents do it. I cannot fathom the pain. God bless you and your family for all you've done and are doing! :grouphug:

It's $3.89 here. I'm excited when I can find it for $2.99!

RoughCollie, that Aidan is PRECIOUS!!! I love the picture of him on the toaster oven! :lol:

:iagree: Dh won't let us get a dog, so I love seeing & hearing others' dogs & their stories.

Praying for you, Joanne! May you get insurance coverage soon. :grouphug:

A blessing for her! Praying they have fun and have safe travels!

I'm sorry. :grouphug:

I had a very nice day! I got to sleep in, my boys bought me a pair of earrings and a silver cross necklace, we went to church, hung around, dh has been doing everything, and then we went to dinner at one of my favorite burger restaurants. Simple, quiet, and easy. I'm happy! :D

If it's an evening wedding, I think it would be nice. I'd be afraid of not being able to return in though. If you've bought from them before and know their fits, then you may be fine.

We do not do Valentine's Day, but we do recognize Mother's Day. It's not full of gifts, although the boys did get me a pair of earrings that dh said was super-on-sale. Rather, today, they make sure I relax, don't do chores, and don't have to cook. I'll take it for one day! :001_smile: I am expected to send my mother and grand-mother something every year. They do believe it must be honored with "stuff".

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:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: to you, Nakia! Just a few weeks ago, I was right where you are. I sat down one night (alone), and I fell apart. I prayed fervently, asking God to guide me & carry me because I couldn't do it anymore. Since then, I have felt his presence. I'm not 100%, but I'm feeling stronger. Take it minute-by-minute if you have to, and keep praying. You are not alone. We're here for you, and I've lifted you up. :grouphug:

I'm so sorry. :grouphug:

:grouphug: I'm so glad you were able to get out of it.

Praying for you... God knows where you need to be. :grouphug:

:iagree: I just posted a response that spoke to this. The feeling of entitlement confuses me as well.