As a mom that puts this on the invitations, please don't bring a gift. Someone always does and it makes the others who didn't uncomfortable. Also, if someone chooses to bring a gift, please don't be offended when I greet you at the door, thank you for the gift, and quietly place it in another room for the birthday girl to open after everyone has left. NO, she is not going to open it in front of everyone.This happened several times when dds were younger and I had to take time away from the party and deal w/something that I shouldn't of have to deal with! Rant over:glare: