I will never understand people who argue with/dictate to/cause trouble for the bride and groom at weddings. :glare: I stood my ground on my wedding choices (despite pressure and arguing from people who will remain nameless,) and I have no regrets. My sister got married in May, changed more things for other people than she kept of her original plan, and is still sighing with regrets over giving in. Tell your daughter that this is HER (and the groom's) wedding and it's what THEY want. Period.