:grouphug:Yes, I would:grouphug:. Tell them, I said...they stink as family. Your grand-babies are adorable, and I'd drive 4 hours just to see them.
It's pretty much the same with dh's family...I've learned to smile, and remind them them the road runs/works in both directions...and here is the shocker...it's the same time for us to drive to their house. Sadly, it means we see them less and less. I figure...they're as important to me as I am to them:tongue_smilie:.
My kids are big...reality dawned, and I'm not bothering to make his family feel happy anymore. They get very embarassed when other family and friends ask about us, because they've never made the effort. :banghead: