clementine Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 So, dd has her first bf & could be meeting soon at their home. I am wondering what an appropriate small gift would be? She's not 21 yet, so a bottle of wine is a no. She can't do flowers because she'll be traveling there - baked goods would also not stay fresh. I have thought about a candle, a small basket of jams/spreads/etc. made in our state (they are in another state)??? You guys are the best resource, so give me your suggestions ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 LOVE the idea of state specific or local spreads/jams/etc. 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbel Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 Yes, some jams and such from your state could be very nice. She should ask her boyfriend if that would work for them or not. I only say that because I once took a similar gift to someone and the person thanked me but commented that she could not enjoy them because of some medical condition. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 Another idea is to ask her boyfriend if they collect/enjoy anything in particular and bring something from that category. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 1 hour ago, Ktgrok said: LOVE the idea of state specific or local spreads/jams/etc. I also love that idea. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katilac Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 dd brought notecards printed by a local artist - very easy to transport! 4 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie G Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 Something local, whether it’s a food or product, is always nice. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjand6more Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 Does she sew or crochet? Something handmade is sweet and appropriate. If not, then something local is perfect. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmandaVT Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 I like the state-specific idea - my go to is frequently something maple related. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mominco Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 I had someone give me a very nice set of kitchen towels from their state.I love them.So hand towels/kitchen towels with some local honey or and sauces? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KungFuPanda Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 What state is she coming from? How long is her trip? A small potted plant is actually not that hard to pack for shipping if your travel time is only a day or two, you just have to open it up and water it when you get there. I'd be tempted to do that with a small state-specific sign or figurine to decorate it. A Christmas ornament is easy too, but we're a little far from the holiday. Wind chimes? State-specific snack foods? This is easy for Maryland, but I guess it depends where you're coming from. Maybe just some nice chocolates if they won't melt. ETA: I think a consumable gift can be especially considerate because the person isn't obligated to keep it forever or find it and put it out when they know you're coming. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knock Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 I have five sons and would be thrilled with anything a girlfriend brought me ? I got Mother's Day cards this year from two of the three girlfriends, and it warmed my heart. The first time I met my oldest son's college girlfriend, she brought me a framed photo of them from a sorority/fraternity bash. My middle son's girlfriend made me a pot holder the first time she came to stay at our house (she moved out of state and came back for visits). Since you're out of state, the suggestion of a local treat is a great one! I think that's a nice ice breaker, too. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clementine Posted May 23, 2018 Author Share Posted May 23, 2018 6 hours ago, katilac said: dd brought notecards printed by a local artist - very easy to transport! Ooh I like that idea too!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clementine Posted May 23, 2018 Author Share Posted May 23, 2018 2 hours ago, mominco said: I had someone give me a very nice set of kitchen towels from their state.I love them.So hand towels/kitchen towels with some local honey or and sauces? I was thinking to have her line the basket, so this is a great addition! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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