AnnE-girl Posted February 16, 2017 Share Posted February 16, 2017 I stayed up too late last night and I'm just crabby today. Then even the sound of my kids' voices is making me feel like snapping and I realized what time of the month it is. I just want to be left alone so I'm not so cranky with them, but that's not really possible with three kids, the youngest being only 15 months. I had fantasies of just enrolling the older two in school today so I wouldn't have to deal with them. If you are prone to bad PMS, how do you get through school days when everything your kids do makes you crazy? I know it's temporary, but it's hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indigomama Posted February 16, 2017 Share Posted February 16, 2017 I don't know the answer, but I need to find an answer soon! My cycles were non-existent or very inconsistent for years, I've been on medication to get them more regular, but that has also led to awful PMS. It really, really affects a a whole week of my month. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UmMusa Posted February 16, 2017 Share Posted February 16, 2017 Acupuncture really helped me with my cycle. With kids as young as yours you might not easily find the time for an appointment, but if you can it is worth it. I went three times a month for a few months then once a month. I can now skip and go every two or three months.. been going for 2 years. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted February 16, 2017 Share Posted February 16, 2017 Borage oil. Totally cleared this up for me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
school17777 Posted February 16, 2017 Share Posted February 16, 2017 Taking an Evening of Primrose pill, or something like that that I learned about on here, does help. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nansk Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 Taking an Evening of Primrose pill, or something like that that I learned about on here, does help. Me too. I take Nordic Naturals Omega EPO blend. http://sg.iherb.com/pr/Nordic-Naturals-Omega-Woman-Evening-Primrose-Oil-Blend-Lemon-500-mg-120-Soft-Gels/4298 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 EPO and borage oil have the same active ingredient. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squawky Acres Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 For today, eat a nice protein-filled breakfast, take some Advil and your vitamins, and then take the kids for a walk outside for some fresh air. If things are still not better after that, you could put on some Wild Kratts or something somewhat educational for the kids, and then cocoon up in your room and read until you feel better. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SparklyUnicorn Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 How many days are you feeling incapacitated? If we are talking 3 days, for example, what's three days? Maybe work around it. On those days maybe assign the bare minimum (for me that's math and reading). 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 For my young kids I try and do fun things that lead to them being distracted. "Hey! Let's see what sinks and what floats!" Give them a tub of water, and some things to test out. Test tubes, droppers. Whatever. They usually get sucked in and require minimal input from me, and more importantly aren't arguing with me about. Then we go for a walk and they play outside and then it's time for quiet time!! Or I bring out play doh or air clay and let them have at it. All of that makes them less chatty at me. My teen, I give a writing assignment that day and make sure she doesn't have a particularly frustrating day ahead in other subjects or it's just bad- we're on the same cycle, and two people with PMS is a train wreck. That's the day she'll catch up on reading, writing etc. For online classes. For me it's usually only one really bad day where I feel like I'm coming out of my skin. I also tack some time onto quiet time for them if needed and hide in my study with some M&M's or a Godiva bar if I was thinking ahead. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joules Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 I had other health problems, but my solution was schooling year round. If I only have to get in 180 out of 365, I felt less guilty when I HAD to have the day off and leave ds to his own devices (TV, computer, grandma, or whatever.) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 (edited) I used to take Premsyn PMS occasionally. It took the edge off the grumpiness and irritability, although it made me a little sleepy. Edited February 18, 2017 by MercyA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EMS83 Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 Do Nothing Day. We're on the relaxed end of the spectrum and school year-round, which makes me feel not guilty at all if I need a day. For general unavoidable interactions, mine are old enough to comprehend, "Mama needs some extra grace today, please. If you can't offer that, go hang out in your room." And I try to be as nice as possible; no freebie "be as grouchy as I want" days. BUT, I don't think my bad days are really bad, in the big picture. So for a laid-out-with-a-migraine type situation (the "might puke" kind), screens and/or naps for all. That's happened a couple times when it was just me and them (the last time they were probably 18 months-6 years ish). You do what you have to do. Usually 2-4 hours of sleep will set me right again. And I explain, even when they're little, that Mama's not feeling well. If nothing else, so they might know it's not their fault. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Hope you feel better soon. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausmumof3 Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 If you know when it is consistently I'd schedule mostly independent work and maybe relax screen time rules. I've never heard of borage oil. Interesting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted February 18, 2017 Share Posted February 18, 2017 If it's edging into PMDD or significantly impacting my life, I'd try an SSRI or some other medical intervention. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzanne in ABQ Posted February 18, 2017 Share Posted February 18, 2017 The options listed available weren't available to me (or I wasn't aware of them), but natural progesterone cream helped me tremendously. I called it my happy cream. I used it twice a day for the first two weeks of my cycle, then once a day for the third week, and none for the period week. 1/2 tsp each time. (I used Pro-Gest, made by Emerita, but there are lots of brands available) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Darinski Posted February 18, 2017 Share Posted February 18, 2017 Don't mean to hijack, but have any of you had any success with any natural remedies? And thanks to the previous poster who mentioned PMDD. I had never heard of it before, but this resonates with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sammish Posted February 18, 2017 Share Posted February 18, 2017 I'll also mention that there's a class of anti-depressants which can be taken as-needed for PMS, and (for me at least) they are miracle workers! I have a small bottle of Celexa laying around for just this purpose. When people are all being particularly, (clearly intentionally) irritating right before my period, I take a pill, and 20 minutes later everyone suddenly becomes less obnoxious! Truly an amazing pill - I take it, and it changes everyone else's behavior :lol: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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