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my dd and friend have already started the "I'm bored"


lynn
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I tell them, "Try to find something constructive to do. If you can't, I'll find something for you to do." It works like a charm. Either they find a way to be occupied or they are smart enough to be bored somewhere else!

 

(Note: my youngest is 13 and capable of finding something constructive to do.. So, it's not like I'm telling toddlers to go find a way to be busy.)

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Send them over. I have a van that needs cleaning. :laugh:

Good one, I can add wash my car to the list or ask a neighbor if their yard needs raking or porch swept. (We know a few neighbors well enough for this one)
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Good one, I can add wash my car to the list or ask a neighbor if their yard needs raking or porch swept. (We know a few neighbors well enough for this one)

 

 

Great idea!  Maybe they will generate a little business to pay for the things they would enjoy this summer.

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My kids learned long ago not to say those words to me.  I will find something for them to do and it will involve cleaning.

 

I did just see this today:

B - been creative?

O-outside play?

R-read a book?

E - exercised 20 minutes?

D-done something helpful?

 

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My mother used to reply, "I have a whole list of jobs you can do if you are bored." That's one of those generational statements worth repeating.

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My kids never said the "B" word after the first couple of times - they caught on quickly that it resulted in Chore Time for them!!

 

I will say, though, that had my kids really had trouble figuring out what to do with themselves, we would have had some brainstorming sessions, I would have helped them make some lists, etc.

 

Anne

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I just say, "Oh."

 

Sometimes, if I feel particularly wordy, I might add, "Too bad."

 

They used to stand there and look at me, waiting for more, then finally go away when they realized that was all I the attention I had to give to that particular topic.

 

Now they still tell me once in a while, but it's usually followed by a solution to the problem: Will you play cards with me/Can I call my friend to play/Can I make cookies...

 

Cat

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