Dmmetler Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 read so well and so far above grade level, yet reliably NOT read directions???!!??? And then start crying when I tell her she's wrong BECAUSE she didn't read the directions and did the entire page incorrectly???!!??? Seriously, child??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GWOB Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 How do you know about my son? Is he over there at your house? Yes, I hear you. Yes, it makes me :banghead:. I am hoping/praying he will grow out of it. I hope the 5,000,000 times I have said "Read the directions first, dear" will eventually sink into his head. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 Have her read the directions to you *out loud* before she begins. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Rain Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 That was one of the comments I loved on the video SWB posted recently. FWIW, my dd does this too. It drives me bonkers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brett_ashley Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 This is my 7 year old to a tee. She's an excellent reader except when it comes to word problems. I even have her read aloud and she still reads what she initially guesses that it says. Only when I have her read aloud moving her finger to each word will she realize that she has assumed incorrectly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momof3littles Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 This is my 7yo as well. He's a perfectionist but doesn't want to read directions and then freaks out when he gets a section wrong because he didn't follow instructions. I posted something on the accelerated board yesterday about the disparity between working above grade level in math where he flies through everything with relative ease, but can't catch relatively obvious mistakes yet. 95% of these are careless mistakes. Even with encouraging him to double and triple check, he isn't really great at catching his mistakes yet. I was wondering if that was typical of accelerated children where they know the content but maybe don't have the maturity to catch mistakes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KAM Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 This is my 9 year old. I even read the directions to him and he does it wrong. The other day he multplied a whole bunch of problems that he was supposed to add. Didn't read the directions, didn't notice the multiplication signs! He was pretty ticked off when I pointed it out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stripe Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 Ah, her teacher has not given her the famous 'Following Directions' test yet. one version: http://www.justriddlesandmore.com/direct.html Ha, I remember something similar in 6th grade. I was the only one who wasn't scribbling away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dmmetler Posted January 27, 2012 Author Share Posted January 27, 2012 I really wonder what's going to happen on the end of year testing. I KNOW she knows the content-but if she doesn't read the directions and instead marks the first correctly spelled word instead of the misspelled one (which I could EASILY see her doing, based on the way she did one of her Greek assignments today), she'd get the whole section wrong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jann in TX Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 It is NOT uncommon for young children to be able to 'read' at a much higher grade level than they can comprehend. When I taught special ed I had a student with down syndrome who could 'read' at a high school level-- BUT his comprehension was only at a 1st grade level. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dmmetler Posted January 27, 2012 Author Share Posted January 27, 2012 Comprehension is NOT the issue here. She tests at post high school on reading comprehension, and reads books like Beowulf and The Odyssey for fun. Taking 15 seconds to actually READ that she's supposed to copy the word before translating it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xilka Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 My son is like this too. Here's what I think - He reads so well and is so good at math, that he's slightly overconfident. He'll look at something at think he knows how to do it without reading the instructions. When he makes mistakes because he didn't read the instructions, he has to erase and do over. He hates that, so, slowly, he is learning to pay more attention to instructions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smstjohn Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 I see the same thing in my seven year-old and I did the same thing, too, growing up. Mostly, it was because I was trying to get through my work and thought I had it "all figured out." Like, we've been doing these type of problems forever, surely it's all the same! Truthfully, for me, it just took time to realize I do not know how to do everything without first reading the directions. And I still have to remind my son to read the directions all the way through, slowly! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolphin Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 This is my son too. He is in 4th grade and recently tested and 8th grade reading comprehension (12th grade word recognition, so yes I know that there is a difference:001_smile:(oh, and he is not a super kid, he is a year below grade in math)) I write read direction everywhere. The top of each weekly plan, on the white board (in a variety of changing colors), posts its on the mirror. We have had long discussions about how he ends up wasting his time by not reading directions. This is one of those times I am glad I homeschool. It would not be picked up on and worked on as hard at ps. I find a good urghhh while slapping myself on the head helps. DS has now got to the point that if I do that he will sheepishly ask for his paper back and re read the directions and correct it on his own. I am giving him that quiz next week!:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lorrainejmc Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 Dd is a strong reader but does this too. This is why I use teacher intensive curricula where possible. Otherwise, I make her read the instructions then tell me in her own words what she is has to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 read so well and so far above grade level, yet reliably NOT read directions???!!??? And then start crying when I tell her she's wrong BECAUSE she didn't read the directions and did the entire page incorrectly???!!??? Seriously, child??? because she doesn't NEED directions. She is so smart that the instructions are irrelevant! She did not do them wrong. It's the instructions that are incorrect. Oh, wait, that is my kid not yours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hwin Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 As a child, I learned most everything intuitively, and found the teacher's way of doing things cumbersome - it just slowed me done. So I usually went with my intuition instead of following directions. It was USUALLY right but oh so embarrassing when it was wrong... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazyforlatin Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 I don't think it's a matter of comprehension because DD is the SAME. Very high reading level with just as high comprehension. Except she skips the directions. If she does read it, she doesn't agree with it and does something else. I can't believe I actually have to read it along with her so that she actually reads slowly and understands that she has to do according to the instructions. Just practice with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazyforlatin Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 because she doesn't NEED directions. She is so smart that the instructions are irrelevant! She did not do them wrong. It's the instructions that are incorrect. Oh, wait, that is my kid not yours. :lol: You have my kid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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