I don't necessary homeschool, don't have kids, but it has come into question when I talk about the topic with my mother.
When I was in elementary school (4-5th grade) I was friends with this guy, and after a while he started getting more aggressive towards me, and sometimes my two girlfriends. Mostly me, though. He started kicking me repeatedly, along with other things. My parents found out about it, they told the school. The school went out of their way to try and keep us apart. But the thing was...I didn't listen. Probably should have at the time, but I didn't. Any time the teacher came out, we'd go separate ways during recess, then when she was gone, we'd hang out again. I guess I was just too....into the idea of being his friend, since I only had 3, that I didn't stop to think what it was doing to me. After I moved away from that school and moved to here, I was in 6th grade and this guy would pick on me all the time. He even went as far as pulling my chair out from underneath me, and I'd crash to the floor. Teacher never knew about it, but I knew then to stay away from the guy.
Later that same grade, I said I was glad some girl was moving. I didn't like her, she didn't like me. I instantly lost all my friends saying that. They'd follow me around at recess, taunt me with their words no matter how many times I tried to walk away from them. The entire 1/2 of a year I spent there was a living torture. Then I started 7th grade, and that was when this one girl would relentessly tease me, saying my friend wasn't my friend, etc. She sent me harassing emails, she'd bully me at school. We were friends at one point, but that evaporated over nothing. The principal knew about it, but they did absolutely nothing! It didn't matter to anyone in the school that I spoke to about it.
I wasn't safe from the teachers. They would ridicule me for reading ahead of the class, they'd subject me to staying in a lower reading group that was well below what I could read. I had a math teacher, which was in a class I shouldn't have taken to begin with, that would neglect myself and another student in favor of....well her own race. I'm not just saying that cause I'm racist, or anything, it was something myself and another student noticed over time. Yes, I think this would definitely come into question when I have kids, and decide what to do with them. I don't want my child to be held back, placed somewhere they aren't ready for, or tormented both at home and school for doing absolutely nothing.