I voted "other" because I don't think there should be a rule at all. My grandmother is in her mid-nineties. She was born a gorgeous redhead and has been one ever since. She is not trying to hide her age, she is quite proud of it, but she simply cannot imagine not having red hair. She is absolutely beautiful!

[(relationship history with in laws/amount they babysat)x(extant of any financial dependency)+(hopes for future relationship with in laws/realistic expectations)]- (discord this will cause between siblings X 2)= ?????? I chose other, because I'm not sure that there is a "right" answer. The best answer is the one that feels right to your family, the one that won't keep you awake wondering. I do think it was at best, unwise, for the in laws to make plans of this nature without direct consultation with all potential travelers.

It's a wonderful book. I've taught from it and people really find it helpful.

The initial knowledge would creep me out, and if I believed he was a danger to my children or to me, I'd want to move.

I chose ask your sister. l think it's lovely that you are so considerate of her feelings. I'm emojiless on the iPad, so imagine hugs, balloons, etc. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! One for each baby. Same age cousins are so fun!

I'm generally pleasant and funny, plus I often have good snacks. People like to tell me their stories. I chose most. .

I had no idea! I so agree about the recipe. Just give it to me. I don't have time to scroll!

I know a JoAn (yes, there is a capital A in the middle of the name). The pronunciation is identical to yours. As for our Joanne, if she is other than Jo-Anne it's going to be a struggle for me. I was in second grade when I learned the proper pronunciation of Penelope. I don't think I stopped saying Pen-eh-lope in my head until junior high!

When we were deciding about whether or not to have a caboose sleep deprivation was my number one con! I'm with everyone else, the snugly joy of nursing is a memory I will always cherish, but the exhaustion? NO!

I have had these for years: http://www.reuseit.com/totes-and-market-baskets/acme-bags-reuseit-reuseit-earthtote-reusable-bag-original.htm The one downside is that baggers recognize their strength. Baggers will pack them to a weight that is uncomfortable to carry if I don't specifically ask them to keep the bags reasonably light. I should make laminated instruction tags and attach them. #iamnotacontrolfreak

There's an essential oil for that!

Just prayed.

Just prayed.

Not anymore. Pussycat was a no show to Owl's wedding & P sent O a bill for the uneaten quince and mince. So. Much. Drama. Now quince and mince make me SAD.

Sporks are just so pedestrian. Public schools use them. I won't have them in my house. We use runcible spoons or ice cream forks.

Love is the answer and you know that for sure.

She is really little and doing well in the current daycare. I would not move her to shave three months off your repayment.

That's worse than I had imagined. I think inviting some homeschooled friends is a great idea.

My neighbor is a minister (not at our church). She asked if her middle school youth group could come and do our weeding/fall cleanup. I said yes. $200 later I had more weeds than I would expect and no roses. They dug up and hauled away my roses.

Typing on my phone so this won't be literary: -tell YP (because he's a good one, may have ideas, can support -there's a certain extent to which connecting with people is a numbers game. Keep inviting, and don't take it personally when you don't click. -meet the school high schoolers where they are. What does their life revolve around? Show interest in them. The "good" ones will eventually return it. -accept that a huge part of high school relationships revolve around the minutiae of daily interactions and events at school. That's likely impenetrable. Don't try to have them explain each little imbroglio (they won't want to do this all the time. Be content to go along for the ride. -especially for girls, deep connection with school friends may be a trade off for homeschooling (always exceptions) but that doesn't mean there can't be more connection/inclusion Hugs for your mama heart

(((((Abba12))))) I'm so sorrry for your loss.

I've seen some whackadoo rescues, including one with a contract allowing them to take the dog back at any time. Not requiring that you surrender the dog to them if necessary, but actually retaining primary ownership of the dog! My state has an amazing program that rescues and trains dogs for service as well as pet homes. Prisoners do the training, under the supervision of a pro. The pet dogs (mostly adults) come out of the program with at minimum basic obedience, and a well known temperament. The adoption process here is sensible and the cost very reasonable. I know other states have similar programs, so it might be worth looking. My most wonderful dog was adopted as a three year old retiree from her breeder. She is gone now and I miss her terribly. I'm sorry you are facing so much resistance when you just want to provide a loving home to a dog!

((((((((Medic Mom)))))))) I am so sorry. You couldn't have known, you love your boy, don't be harsh with yourself.

I am so sorry for the loss of your remarkable son. Thank you for continuing to share his story, your story, and His story. I prayed for you just now, and will continue to lift you up.

PTL for the surgeon. I just prayed for healing and peace for your dad.