The worst I have experienced was once in a Pizza Hut. We had 4 or 5 kids at the time? and I was pregnant. DH was in the booth with some of the kids and I was in the bathroom with one of the other kids. An older lady had come to our bench and was telling DH how nice our kids were blah blah. Then, I come and and join him, huge pregnant belly and all, and with another child. Her head about spun backwards LOL. She started yelling at me and asking me why I wasn't on the pill? How come I had so many kids? I just stammered something about allowing God to decide our family size. She gets real close and yells in my face" When is the last time you talked to God". Finally, mercifully, her DD or sister or who ever, pulls her away and they left. Of course after she left I thought of about a zillion come backs. Such as, me and my Dh don't use BC and we like to _______. I'd have loved to see her face at that one :D
Then there was the time in McDonalds with my sister and we were getting the "looks". So I said to my sis realy loud how I wish McD's took food stamps! And how I am so thankful ALL the kid's dads paid their child support that month. My sister vowed to never go in public with me again LOL. ( no offense meant to those who use gov aid or get child support)
But you know, I cant tell you how many times I have ran into older ladies who tell me how blessed I am. They tell me that I have a beautiful family and a few tell me that they wish they had had more. That happens more than the few bad experiences.