My first thought would be to let your dd handle the situation. However, I think I would mention the interest the savvy girl has in the 14 yo boy to his mom. I say that because I have two boys and I would have wanted to know if that had happened when they were 14. One of my boys could have handled the situation but my other son would not have known how to deal with an older girl and I would have wanted to know so I could make sure had the tools necessary to handle that type of situation. So, I wouldn't suggest talking to the savvy girl's parents but I would mention her interest in the boy to his mom.