I've been working on several things:
- Exercise because I want to be healthy and take care of my body - not to look a certain way. (WAY hard -- still working on this)
- Get out of the house for exercise at least twice a day. It helps me to eat smaller meals because I get sick if I eat too much and then exercise. I've always eaten large portions and this has really helped me to be satisfied with less.
- Greatly reduced/eliminated flour and sugar. They are highly addictive and it's tough the first few weeks. Once I got through it though (and it took a while), I actually feel bad when I eat those things which keeps me from eating them again.:)
- Add healthy fats to my diet (avocado, nuts, coconut oil, real butter . . .) and eliminate bad ones (canola oil, soy . . .).
- Try to eat only "real" food.
- Give myself a cheat day. Only one -- it's so easy to sneak a little here and there. For a while my cheat day actually made it difficult for me to continue with my new lifestyle so I had to cut it out. Now, I eat less of the "bad" stuff on my cheat day because it doesn't taste as good anymore. But -- it does help me mentally.
Hope this helps.