My dh was not initially onboard with homeschooling but we both agreed that the ps in our area was not an option (our state is consistently one of the worst performing in the nation). Dh wanted dd to go to a private school that would have been a significant drive everyday. I simply made it clear that if he insisted that dd go the school the ball would be completely in his court. He would have to transport her to and from school daily. He would have to get her up dressed and ready every morning (and she is a major grouch if awakened before she is ready). He would would have to handle all registration, paperwork, parent teacher meetings and other school related things (including explaining exactly where she learned any words she picked up from him that I had been telling him not to use since she was concieved). Dh knows me well enough to know that I meant every word and that I would hold him responsible if anything went wrong. I will however add that I am not in the least submissive.