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Melissa Louise

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  1. I feel like metaphorically is the only take. After all, our back, for example, is not literally a different entity from our mind. We are integrated, literally, into a body. Same with an 'inner' child, critic etc. Just ways to conceptualize ambivalent, divergent feelings.
  2. Honestly, if you are not around vulnerable people, and are symptomless, I'd wait to test. RATS are not coming up with positive results at least half the time, when infection confirmed by later PCR. They really seem to be of limited utility. Maybe just be cautious re contacts. Mask etc.
  3. The 'massive supply' of arms can and will run out - what then? France and Germany already being accused of being stingy with resources. I don't know how anyone can look at Mariupol's devastation and not up the ante. Dragged in now or when more cities lie in ruins ? How terrible to be one of those lives seen as worth paying for the 'greater good'. (Yes, I understand why. Glad there are people who can play the chess game. But people are starving in bombed out basements while we have the luxury of considering the next three moves. The targeting and bombing of civilians - surely it must attract some extra penalty above and beyond that of military engagement with an opposing military? Hypothetical future charges of war crimes seem anaemic. Humanity is staggeringly cruel).
  4. Long, long history of anti-Semitism, well preceding the 20th C.
  5. Schools in NSW are riddled with Covid. Hoping if we can get to Easter, we can have a bit of a circuit breaker. And maybe autumn term will be ok.
  6. Sore arm and general unwellness, yes. But sore throat? Seems unlikely. Other random virus?
  7. You're not horrible for quitting or for seeking a transfer. Retail is incredibly hard work for not much reward, imo.
  8. All war is horrendous. Blaming 'Israel' aka Jews and positing 'Israel' aka Jews as the Putin/Hitlerian equivalent is just incredibly off. Describe a nation's sins as they are, without recourse to anti-Jewish racism, is all I have to say. It's absolutely possible to do so without making an analogy with Putin. My objection is to the analogy, not to the rights of Palestinians.
  9. I'm sorry, I'm not prepared to accept an analogy between victims of a Holocaust ( and systemic, long historic and contemporary discrimination outside that lens) seeking refuge in a homeland as analogous to Putin directing his military to blast Mariupol into non-existence.
  10. I read that Iron Dome is not even suitable for Ukraine. Can't cite where or who said, just that Iron Dome suits short range attacks, not the longer range. No idea if that's correct. I've noticed a lot of commentator weirdness about Israel re Ukraine. It's really odd. I'm more curious about the radio silence re India's position or lack thereof. Which surprised me greatly! Wth, India?! Put me in the column of 'doesn't believe Jews settling in Israel are analogous to Putin and Putin's army commiting war crimes in Ukraine. '
  11. Aw, cute! My favourite homeschool memories are of the kids playing things from literature or history! Finding the girls playing A Midsummer Night's Dream with fuzzy felt was a highlight!
  12. But also, Agnes is kinda right. The dh is being selfish. I might even take a bit of fortitude from Agnes being so outraged on my behalf.
  13. I would 100% come across as a Sally irl and it would be beyond condescending for a friend to step in to 'save' me. Just because I'm being quiet and polite about it doesn't mean I'm downtrodden and in need of assistance.
  14. I actually do have some, so might give it a go if I get desperate! How did you stop it dripping!!
  15. I think I might need to do this, thanks.
  16. This is me. There are women whose work I deeply admire, though. Mary Oliver, Siri Hustvedt. Catherine Hamlin.
  17. Possibly due to wearing my mask at work during high humidity, I've suddenly come out in a rash everywhere the mask covers. It looks like measles (super attractive!) Nose, cheeks and chin. Best ways to treat it? I'll go ask the pharmacist later today, but if anyone has any tips on what they found particularly helpful, that would be great.
  18. A lot of NR kids are living in tents and cars ATM. I think they are mostly attending neighbouring schools where possible. Millions of bees are dead after the floods washed away thousands of hives.
  19. Yes, so many. One of the clapping games was called Miss Mary Mack, I think.
  20. I'd think the addressing would be the important bit, rather than whether you conceptualize it as part of you or a separate entity, 'Back'.
  21. He sent Starlink ( no idea what that is) to NSW floods so people could have access to internet for claiming govt payments etc, so Im predisposed to think more favourably of him than I used to. But then there is everything else...
  22. Yeah, I've heard of it. It's a form of psychotherapy. It's a bit - idk - not the right language for me. 'Evidence based' is interesting. Jonathan Shedler (psychotherapist) has written some good stuff exploring the evidence base of psychotherapy. Limits and otherwise. It's a bit complicated for me. Evidence base for most of psychology is murky. I don't think there is any more evidence for this form of psychotherapy than other model ( but that also includes the gold standard, CBT, which turns out maybe not to be so good long term?) In all forms of therapy, the therapeutic alliance matters more than the manual.
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