Drama Llama Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 (edited) . Edited January 29, 2023 by BandH 25 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 Oh man. Will it ever stop for you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rebcoola Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 Oh that definitely seems weird, sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 Definitely seems fishy. Ugh! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 You being there is a good thing. I'm sorry for all the extra anxiety. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 You're in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drama Llama Posted January 29, 2023 Author Share Posted January 29, 2023 (edited) . Edited January 29, 2023 by BandH 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 Is it possible she was there to hopefully hand the baby off to you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drama Llama Posted January 29, 2023 Author Share Posted January 29, 2023 (edited) . Edited January 29, 2023 by BandH 4 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 You don't have to answer this, but do the kids have a gps locator on their body, not their phones? Maybe a necklace that doesn't look like a gps thingy. <-- (scientific terminology, lol) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 (edited) 22 minutes ago, BandH said: Her Dad was there and if she’d handed them to him and left that wouldn’t have surprised me. But she stayed, took pictures of my kid, it was weird. And if either of his other aunts had done it it would have been normal. Edited January 29, 2023 by Harriet Vane 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 @Harriet Vane, that was my guess, too. But I couldn't figure out what she was there to find out. I mean they know the location and the schedule of his activities, so what do you think is the significance of taking photos and spying? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Faith-manor Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 I don't know what to think. If it were one of my sisters in law, so wouldn't think twice. But your sil, the crazy sil, I just have a hard time not thinking the worst. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 I’m sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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thatfirstsip Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 Your kid is freaked out? Do you know why? Does he have some insider knowledge about the inner workings of the adult dynamics, or is he scared of this SIL for some other reason? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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WildflowerMom Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 Don't worry about responding, I'm just speculating, but do you think whatever happened with court this week got dad even more riled up? Is there a physical threat? Do you have self-defense measures in place (however that may look for you)? Maybe a plan like some families get together and plan what to do in a house fire... 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saraha Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 How did your fil react? Does he know whatever the court said? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grace Hopper Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 (edited) What would have happened if your son hadn’t gone to the game (played) today? Does son want to quit but afraid because dad doesn’t want him to? Edited January 29, 2023 by Grace Hopper Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Faith-manor Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 Could your son switch to a different league/team/time so that his father's family does not know the schedule? Due to your circumstances, your concerns are definitely valid. If this was unsettling for your son and made him feel unsafe, I would take that as a cue to let him quit the team or change sports if he wants to. It is the one decision he can make that will make him feel like he has just a little control, just a little say in his life during such a fragile time. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drama Llama Posted January 29, 2023 Author Share Posted January 29, 2023 (edited) . Edited January 29, 2023 by BandH 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 Has your son shared his fear with a therapist? No need to answer that out loud. Would be a good idea to have that thoroughly documented, including his fear today. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grace Hopper Posted January 29, 2023 Share Posted January 29, 2023 (edited) Have the boys been open with their therapists (and the lawyer, and whatever court representative they may encounter) that they are truly afraid of their father? My heart is heavy for you, the situation seems so unjust. eta @Harriet Vanetyping at the same time Edited January 29, 2023 by Grace Hopper 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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