mama2cntrykids Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Ok, my ex has been paying child support for the most of 8 years. Recently, he's been job hoping and hasn't paid since May. Well, I spoke to him recently and he's had a job for about three weeks (his mother verified this). He said that he was paid today and they didn't take anything out for child support. He said it's b/c he is working with the county, trying to get it lowered. He also told me that he would be sending me a cashiers check and he was wondering how much I usually get for support. I said, you don't know? No, he said. So I told him. He then asked if it was monthly or bi-weekly. You don't know? He said that they just would take out one lump sum (he also pays support for another kid he had after he left me) and that it doesn't distinguish between our boys and the other boys payments. I asked him why the state just wasn't taking out X amount from his check and he told me b/c he's trying to work with them on lowering it. He said they told him to just send me a cashiers check and mail them the receipt so they can keep track of what he's paying me:001_huh:. Am I the only one who this makes **no** sense to? Since when does the child support agency do this? What the heck is going on? Any ideas? I'd love to hear from someone who has worked in the child support sector. Thanks so much. I'm not really sure where to go with this. I mean, I have a worker, but I'm not sure that I should call her yet. I don't even know where ex is working (he won't say). During our convo, he also said other things that don't add up. I'm not sure what to think... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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