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  1. Yes ! My nursing one was 14 months old when we conceived. The pregnancy was a singleton. This was such a shock to us as we'd needed fertility drugs to conceive before and had twins the first time around. But, we were thrilled !
  2. I'm pretty cynical when it comes to safety and stuff so I'd run at a different time, ALWAYS have my cell phone with me , carry pepper spray and satisfy my dh and finally take that gun safety class with him after he buys me the handgun he's talked about. Don't take chances, even if the guy is truly clueless. Too many awful things happen.
  3. We LOVED the Weaver guides. I have 2 for sale, in case anyone is interested. :)
  4. Corn was here when Columbus came...he brought many new 'wonder' foods to Europe including: corn, potatoes, tomatoes, cacoa, tobacco, pineapples, peanuts, etc.. Every year for Columbus Day, I would do a unit study (over several days) on his trips, the impact of them, geography, etc...I learned SO much...so did the kids.
  5. This book might be of help. We read it when we were hunting........ http://www.amazon.com/The-Piano-Book-Buying-Owning/dp/1929145012 Enjoy the process!
  6. I AGREE ! Parents are the ones that help their kids acclimate to the world. We help them understand how to relate to people. If YOU don't explain to them why their behavior is annoying - and you don't have to use that word- I'm just an old mom, my patience is sometimes short and I'm blunt- then, someone else is going to come along and communicate it to them. It probably won't be pretty and you'll have emotional clean-up to do. BTDT I've seen annoying 12 -13 yr old boys get knocked around at the Scout mtg because they lack a 'filter' and self-control and the older guys don't put up with it. They need to know they are NOT the center of the universe and to put others' ideas and desires ahead of their own. I implore you to be honest with your child. Buffering reality from him doesn't do him any favors in the long run.
  7. :iagree::iagree:....Couldn't have said it better. Also, ask believing friends to pray for you and your husband....that you will know God's will in this and that his heart could be softened to know how much the Lord loves him.
  8. I dribble a little in until the stuff starts to move. Doesn't that sound technically astute? :001_smile: Since I don't want 'sludge' but a drinkable consistency, I don't mind the water in it. I LOVE our Blendtec and we make spinach smoothies ALL THE TIME. Also, love the GreenSmoothieGirl blog.....great ideas.
  9. Yikes...What a tense situation with your in-laws. 2 things: Have you read the Boundaries book/s? Your dh should be dealing with them. It's his issue. He needs to protect his kids and wife. I hope it improves. :grouphug:
  10. We just did this. A particular boy regularly harrasses our son and we asked, in writing, the youth pastor to not have them on the same bus or in the same room while at camp. They were happy to comply. I did give an explanation and they understood, completely. This kid was already on their radar. If this youth worker is crossing the line, you should go directly to the pastor and lay down your boundaries. I wouldn't tolerate it. You shouldn't either. Also, if her attitude is that she knows 'better', that also needs to be addressed. She is ignoring the line of authority for your child and dishonoring you. Unacceptable. Totally. The verbage she is using "God told me to tell you" is abusive. Of course, a sensitive adolescent would be intimidated by this. This 'worker' has no BUSINESS talking to any kid like this. Advice like this must start with the parents. AND...if God is actually leading, then everyone will know and be at peace about it. The Holy Spirit doesn't tell you (Mom) one thing and a stranger another. I'd be in the pastor's office quicker than a NY minute. How dare this be allowed ?
  11. I caught this yesterday....it was interesting to learn more about the actors/story and the writing process. http://www.charlierose.com/view/interview/12503 The motorcycle chase was amazing! Also- check out Oscar Isaac- cutie-patootie. He's in the very beginning of the movie.
  12. Oh Joanne! I am so VERY happy for you. God has not forgotten you and your family and wants you all to enjoy this blessing. (I specifically asked the Lord to show Himself to you in this hard and difficult situation.) I thank Him for helping your dh to improve...even enough to come home. How great is that? :) I admire your dh for his perseverence and strength to improve...I'm sure it's not easy. With God's help nothing is impossible. Looking forward to great things !!
  13. I can respond to 2 of your questions regarding braces. Today, they are usually made of durable plastic, custom molded to the individual. Our son, who has arthrogryposis, has had them since he was about a year old- after his corrective surgeries for clubfeet. He is now 15. They are light weight, can have a hinge at the ankle and the kids can choose colors and straps . This is the company that orthotists around here (VA) have make them: http://www.cascadeorthotics.com/html/afo-ankle-foot-orthosis.html
  14. This might be a good place to start. There is always the good with the bad with humans. Thank the Lord for Jesus and His example! http://www.challies.com/articles/on-visiting-saddleback-church
  15. Summit Ministries is a discernment ministry directed towards high school and college-aged kids. Our 2 oldests went there and it's great. Dr. Jeff Meyers took over for David Noebel- the author of "Understanding the Times" and from we can read/see, if doing a great job. They've also expanded the 2-week camp to Bryan College in TN. I HIGHLY recommend it.
  16. I think you should make an appointment with the head pastor and Children's ministry Director and tell them exactly what you've said here. You will probably be surprised how inclusive they will be. There will need to be a recognition of your differences and how you'll need to be prepared to hear things you may not agree with. If you and the leadership can recognize where you DO agree and how you can contribute as well as the huge benefit it would be for your ds, I think you can have a happy symbiotic relationship. You'd need to affirm that you'll not undermine the authority of the church by complaining about some of their stands and they'll need to honor your differences, while both parties focus on how to love God and our fellow man. If you can be 'teachable' and they can be respectful, I predict it will work. I hope it will be beneficial for you. Blessings on you and your family.
  17. :iagree::iagree: We're in a similar kind of church. The problem with that class sounds like poor teaching/leading. I'd call the Childrens' ministry director and give her all the info you have. It wouldn't be allowed at our church. I'm a MOPS mentor and we know that if people's kids are not well cared for, safe and the place is sanitary, parents are not going to leave them there. And therefore, NOT COME. Summertime at our church is when a lot of 'new' and inexperienced folks are in classes to give the regular teachers some time off. Perhaps, that might explain their behavior. Give it another try and by having spoken to the Director, I'm sure your daughter's visit will be much better. Those teachers will either be gone or ON NOTICE. I hope it goes better.
  18. Oh dear.....your parents have just forfeited the option to have any children visit them w/o you again . My gosh- how disrespectful. They should be getting an earful from you AND your dh. I had a sil like that....she would never listen to reason (years and years of it) and we finally had to cut contact. Sad, but necessary.
  19. I haven't read the other responses but we're Seattle natives, living in northern VA. Livability is really dependent on the kind of person you are. We visit occasionally but will NEVER move back there. It is just TOO gray and drizzly for our liking. The geography is lovely and when the sun IS shining, it is stunning! There are just not enough sunny days for us. I can't tell you how many 4th of Julys we were in the garage with little kids, jackets on, lighting sparklers IN THE GARAGE because it was raining and cold outside. One should be SWEATING on the 4th of July. It snows very rarely there and we like the snow. On top of this, we're conservative in our faith and politics. The environment there is much for liberal and we don't feel at home in that. Seattle is a nice place to visit but not to stay permanently.
  20. Mindy- Our twins were our first so, my situation is a bit different from yours but we had 3 more after the twins. Anytime a newborn comes into the homeschooling picture, a family needs to assess what is truly the most important - school wise, as well as the regular functioning of their home. Eating, laundry and cleanliness were at the top for us for functionality. Bible, Math and phonics/writing/grammar were at the top for school. Work it best how it works best for YOU. Always try to remember the myriad of lessons the kids are learning by observing and participating in caring for the babies. No curriculum can replace those vitals lessons. AND, they're important. Extra-curricular activities and non-essentials shouldn't weigh you down with guilt. When our last one was born, history and science was relegated to on their own reading...I did plan what it would be but I wasn't participating, really. Enjoy the blessing of your family, relish the sounds and sights of them all together. Ours are 30 down to 15 now and my dh and I both MISS those days very much. It was a joy.:)
  21. I'm a Challies fan and agree with his review. The Pearls are OUT THERE ! Is their way of thinking really THAT prevelant?
  22. Our pastor preaches expositiorily- which mean straight from the Scripture, teaching what the words mean, the context, any related cultural or historical info that is pertinent and applies it to our daily life. He goes through a book...right now we're in 1st Corinthians....been there since early spring. Occasionally, a Sunday comes along that requires/promotes a detour such as: Mother's/Father's Day, Easter, etc... He usually speaks for 40-45 minutes....the service is very organized and timed. I'm involved in the Worship ministry and can see the timed plan for each Sunday when we come for choir rehearsal. It runs smoothly and I appreciate the forethought that goes into each Sunday. I learn a lot.
  23. A friend of mine owns Wise Decor and they do a WONDERFUL job creating customized lettering- many, many fonts, sizes and colors - as well as carrying a huge stock of quotes and lettering. I HIGHLY recommend them...their customer service is attentive and quick. One of my orders had a tiny issue and they sent out a totally new printout of my quote in just a few days at no cost. Normally, everything is perfect. T he quote goes on the wall lickety-split. It's so fun to do this. They have lots of ideas and galleries of customer photos. It's worth checking out. http://www.wisedecor.com/
  24. I'm so sorry. Our counselor-daughter tells me that people that who put up boundaries may experience some loneliness. Uh-duh. Yes, we've been in the same position. You'll fill up those 'holes' with great folks/relationships, I'm sure! Hangeth in there!
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