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Why is it that most youth pastors don't have children that age? It seems that experience with children that age would be a Big deal. It seems to me that just as someone who doesn't have kids yet just doesn't understand certain things, someone who has never parented teens just doesn't understand certain things.
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When my son was a baby, and I was planning on homeschooling him, the youth pastor at the church we went to loved to talk about how the homeschooled kids were "weird". We had a bunch of them because our church held co-op classes for homeschooled children. The youth pastor was new and came along well after the co-op stuff started. I wonder how his presence affected the homeschool community there. I assume those families eventually left because he is still there with his attitude. He would go on about how they don't bond with their ps peers because they have nothing in common. I thought, "That's great! I don't want my son to grow up having anything in common with the kind of kids I see here at this church who are psed!" FTR, there were quite a few hardened, full of nasty attitude kids from the local public school there at the time. There was a huge difference between the two groups. The hsed kids could talk to the adults at church comfortably and didn't wear spikes and chains as was common with the ps kids and they didn't hole themselves off in peer groups like the ps kids did. The youth pastor thought that made them "weird". It just cemented my desire to homeschool.
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boy showing my 6 y/o dd affection???
Sputterduck replied to Tess in the Burbs's topic in General Education Discussion Board
In my mind, it's a different thing when there is the exchange of "I love you" in sign language or not and the boy not being able to handle when the little girl isn't there. It's cute to a point, but I'd have no problem telling my little one that this is not okay at this age. -
S/O Hitting after the whistle
Sputterduck replied to unsinkable's topic in General Education Discussion Board
I think boys, adolescent or not, are responsible for and capable of checking themselves and maintaining appropriate conduct. If somehow they are not capable of stopping themselves, they have no business playing in an aggressive sport. -
boy showing my 6 y/o dd affection???
Sputterduck replied to Tess in the Burbs's topic in General Education Discussion Board
I have no idea. There is a little girl in my son's homeschool class who talks about her "husband". It makes me uncomfortable. Her mom just rolls her eyes and tolerates it. I think I'd put a stop to it. Early introductions to those things don't do any good for a kid, and may in the long run usher in unwanted things too soon. -
Lego: singular & plural.
Sputterduck replied to hornblower's topic in General Education Discussion Board
We definitely use legos for the plural. -
Girl dies after receiving vaccine (HPV).....
Sputterduck replied to Tammy's topic in General Education Discussion Board
Well, I'm sorry it didn't work out better. :grouphug: -
Girl dies after receiving vaccine (HPV).....
Sputterduck replied to Tammy's topic in General Education Discussion Board
Huh. This is what the CDC has to say about that. "All healthy adults should be assessed for immunity to chickenpox, and those who do not have evidence of immunity should be vaccinated." http://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/vpd-vac/varicella/vac-faqs-gen.htm -
Girl dies after receiving vaccine (HPV).....
Sputterduck replied to Tammy's topic in General Education Discussion Board
Why didn't you get dh the vaccine? -
Sleepless 2 year old. Any suggestions?
Sputterduck replied to staceyobu's topic in General Education Discussion Board
This. My son was a terrible sleeper until we instituted a 6:30 bedtime 3 years ago when he was 2. Now he sleeps for 12 hours straight, and has for the last 3 years. I have hours of alone time after his bedtime and I can get enough sleep. It's amazing. I read about the earlier bedtime in a book, and it truly worked wonders. -
This week at my dd's high school
Sputterduck replied to Tabrett's topic in General Education Discussion Board
Yeah... I'd never send my son to the decent high school I went to. Decent for a ps just doesn't cut it sometimes. -
need first aid advice
Sputterduck replied to shadowcat's topic in General Education Discussion Board
I still have the graphite mark on my finger from when my friend accidentally stabbed me when I was 4. Get it out somehow... Mine hasn't gone away and it's been 25 years.