I wish I had "known" you all years ago when I had my oldest. I thought I was a total failure because I could not, no matter what I tried, get him to nap. I cried when I read "Raising your spirited child" to realize that we weren't alone. At seven he exhausts me but it has changed to more mental exhaustion. I am not one who likes (or can afford) constant activities but swimming lessons, soccer teams, gymnastic tumbling classes, etc. have save us.