My grandmother died in July. One week before her 90 th birthday. Just days before Melbourne went into hard lockdown. I went to my mums, told her I was going with her and that we needed to go to Melbourne and follow Nans wishes. Nan had a list of instructions that she wanted carried out as soon as she died. Nan had told myself, my brother and my mother about these lists and shown all of us where they were hidden.
we did it. It wasn’t easy , we didn’t get everything right, but in the 3 days before full lockdown we got most valuables and sentimental items on their way to people who nan wanted them to go to, we organised a very small funeral, we managed this while dealing with Nan’s abnoxious crazy husband (why she married him in her later years is beyond our understanding).