After homeschooling for 6 years, we are finally making significant progress. It seems like we were "stuck" for a while where we couldn't move forward in reading, spelling, and writing. My boys have had significant learning challenges due to a history of epilepsy, severe speech apraxia, and auditory processing issues. They have always been at the same level. We do most subjects together, but I also make time to work with them individually on writing and math. I don't really see much competition between them, or even jealousy. I do see that one is stronger in math skills while the other in reading.