My sister is in the process of adopting her fourth child from India. The first time, her husband couldn't get enough time off of work, so she went with her best friend. The second time, she and another of my sisters went, and her husband stayed home with her son. The third time, she stayed home with the first two, and her husband went. This time, they are planning to both go together, and my nephew has requested that I come and stay with them while his parents are gone so that he can play with my boys! :laugh: But, the time in India is only about 10 days, and both parents don't have to be there. Adoption from India is difficult, except that my sister has adopted all kids with very specific medical needs, so their process goes more quickly. Even then, it has averaged a year from time of making the decision to adopt to actually bringing their child home.