Χά�ων Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 Holidays. First Christmas without my grandma. Or uncle. Or other uncle. Year anniversery when a !$*& hurt my kid. Crappy significant health issues. I fear another death. Someone owes me a significant amount of money and is flaunting money and picked something I would know to the cost of while claiming to be poor. Materials alone exceed what I am owed. It FEELS like a targeted purchase. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneStepAtATime Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaillardia Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 :grouphug: :crying: I know this is a vent and you didn't say agree with you. I can commiserate. Lost two elderly much-loved ones this year. I had stopped contacting them, and I don't know why I did that. They had reached out to me many times and I to them, but then we stopped. There isn't really anyone left in that category now. :crying: I hope your kid is doing okay. That stuff about someone owing ya money and flaunting their purchase... :glare: really? people are just mean-spirited. I hope you can find it within yourself to move along. Sometimes I do a lot of self-talk or find a friend or family member who really has my back and will build me up. It kind of puts me on a different planet when I am able to get through that. You know you really don't want to keep feeling bad/sad/mad. Try to reach out to those who you still have, who are still dear to you. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Χά�ων Posted December 21, 2017 Author Share Posted December 21, 2017 The money and flaunting is not the big thing, more of that straw that breaks the camels back. It is pointed. It is the same person who hurt my kid. Holidays have also been stressful, now I find them triggering. My son was hurt on Christmas last year. The day is forever tied to that event. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
displace Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 :( (Hugs) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aaplank Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 I'm so sorry for what you've gone through. Could you get away for a little bit, like a little road trip, to try to disassociate Christmas from all the pain and heartache? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 I'm sorry. It's a difficult time of the year. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SparklyUnicorn Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 So sorry... :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Vent away. What you're dealing with is very vent worthy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted December 21, 2017 Share Posted December 21, 2017 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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