I love this point. I've been mulling over the whole love languages thing. I feel that, if someone's "love language" is truly gifts, they will be considerate of their recipients when selecting gifts. It doesn't mean they can't give generously, it simply means that they won't give so excessively that it burdens the recipient. A style of gift-giving that is grossly excessive with zero concern if it makes others feel uncomfortable... I'm not convinced that's either "love" or "language." I would think that someone whose "love language is gifts" would hold back in the future if they noticed that others felt uncomfortable, because the point is to communicate love, not to create stress and a burden. (I haven't read the book about love languages, so maybe I'm misunderstanding.)
Joshin, I also loved your story about your grandmother's cards. :001_wub: