Your numbers aren't frightening, but the way you talk about them is. I'd have a chat with the doctor to see what they advise re: your sedentary lifestyle and low calorie intake.

IMHO maturity and mindfulness comes with a sense of contentment in yourself and those around you. These overly-intentional folks you are describing always strike me as discontent, self-focused, and judgemental. Their internal struggle is obvious, and is uncomfortable to be around.

Try having her write on a table-top white board. It erases completely and she will know that it isn't going to be saved. That being said, 15 min for one sentence is excessive. How much of that time is her first writing, and how much is revision? Is it really the writing that is slowig her down, or does she struggle with remembering the sentence and/or spelling it? I'd be concerned that you are hitting a wall simply because of frustration. If so, back way off - adding performance anxiety to the mix won't help. It is okay to stick with just words or phrases until she feels confident. Maybe practice the parroting skill (having her repeat back a sentence word-for-word) separate from writing for a bit, and make sure she has that solidly under control before asking her to remember and write and spell all at the same time.

Mine start with toenails at 5 and are able to do their own hands by age 6. Every once in a while my 7yo may ask for help with her dominant hand, but in general she is pretty independent at this point.

DH sneezes so loud my ears will ring (literal, not figurative). I can't stand it. I don't think it is intentional, but I really wish he could temper it down a bit.

His testing was very recent! Unless there were some horrible flaws in the process, I would assume that the doctors are on top of this, and his behaviors truly are rooted in ADD, learning disabilities, and any other dx you were given at that time. Talk with your np at your appointment in 2 weeks, but, honestly, I wouldn't hold my breath for a diagnosis change. Instead, I'd focus on asking for a list of proven strategies that they suggest for kids with your son's specific combination of disorders/strengths. That list was a lifesaver for me. I know how frustrating it is to watch your child struggle. I'm so sorry.

I'm not sure if this is true in Canada, but in our area the school is required to have copies of their scope and sequence available to the public, and often the texts are available too. In general, the reference librarian at the public libraries can point you to where these can be found (often simply on the shelf, or online). Regardless of whether you end up being successful in getting more access to your son's records, it might be helpful to take a look at these materials so that you'll know what your son's teacher has been/will be covering. Then you'll be able to ask your son more pointed questions at dinner, and help him study for exams.

Dyslexic children often suffer from anxiety as a result of their struggles to learn. It can become quite debilitating, and extend far beyond school issues, often presenting as anger rather than fear. Anxiety can also cause physical symptoms like headaches. Regardless whether it is ODD, ASD, ADHD, or anxiety, a full neuro-psych evaluation will give you the answers you need. The testing is time consuming and intimidating, but absolutely worth the investment.

I've reached my goals 3 of 4 days this week so far - a win in my world. My camel-like habits are kicking my rear, though. My lips are peeling and my skin is dry. I really, really hate cold water, so I'm going to try switching to hot, which I've always thought of as something to have when relaxing, and see if it will trick me into drinking more.

Ooh! I'm in. Accountability is what I need! I'd like to set a long term goal, but I tend to get a bit too pie-in-the-sky, so I'm going to be practical and think only one week ahead. Goals for this week: Monday - Treadmill & upper body DONE Tuesday - Treadmill & abs - ***complete and utter failure to try, but I have my rest-day reserved to get myself back on track*** Wednesday - Skiing DONE Thursday - Archery DONE Friday - Treadmill & squats Saturday - Archery Sunday - rest day My reward if I don't miss a day (it isn't fun to work without a reward): Pick up a new bottle of maracuja oil with my Sephora gift card. I have a fused spine - T4 to L4 (shoulder to hip). It took years for me to fully believe that high impact exercise wouldn't hurt me. Some things I need to modify, but most I just need to build up to slowly and intentionally. Form is important if you are going to run or jump. Make sure you are landing squarely, feet shoulder width apart, that you are working on smooth ground, and not leaning forward. Also, make sure you are wearing shoes with great soles. Keds will just send shock-waves through your fusion. It is okay to feel muscles working, but it is not healthy to feel sharp pain on impact. As a side note, archery is my back's miracle drug. It targets muscles I can't naturally move in daily activities any more. I went from constant dull aches to completely pain free when a friend introduced me to recurve. If you happen to have a club in the area, it might we worth looking in to.

I am kinda' appalled that she would talk to the pastor (even if he is her dad) about someone throwing away Sunday School crafts. You shoudn't have thrown it away within the church - that was rude on your part. She, however, shouldn't have any say on which crafts get saved and which get tossed. We always talk about Sunday School lessons, but it is 5 min in the car, and SS is minor compared to their Bible lessons every week, so I don't make a big deal of it.

Life of Fred has been a great fit for my dyscalc. DD in regards to fractions. She knew what to do with them, but not why. The stories and examples in LOF helped her to straighten out the meaning behind her actions. (And because of the fun presentation, she never complained about "going backwards" or doing additional math practice)

Dyson has a $500 hairdryer that is supposedly quiet. I wouldn't spend that, but if it is a priority for you, maybe you'd find the cost worth it.

Ooh, thought of another one. DD was around 4 and wearing Robeez (thin leather shoes) while going up an escalator in a busy mall. She didn't lift her feet in time and the tines of the machine pierced her shoe and started sucking it down with her foot still inside. I had to press the emergency stop. Did you know that it emits a LOUD alarm? Between that and DD's frantic crying (from fear, she was unharmed), the entire store turned to see what was happening. We had to wait there at the top of the stairs for forever, with the alarm screaming non-stop, waiting for the maintenance man to reverse the stairs and release her shoe. She then had to walk to the opposite end of the mall wearing only the heel of one shoe.

I once wore a wrap dress on a windy day - I gave everyone in the parking lot my best Marilyn Monroe impersonation that day.

Dysmorphia feeds off of the attention of others, both good and bad. You will not help her by increasing awareness of her channel. Complain to you-tube if you'd like, but talking/chatting-online about her body actually hurts rather than helps. PS - My tone is coming across really snippy and cross. Not sure how to fix that, and I apologize. My intention is to share information, not to bite your head off.

Please, please, please keep you opinions about other people's size and/or eating habits to yourself unless you are in the position (mom/spouse) to get them into treatment. Even then, comments need to be very carefully crafted. Examining an anorexic's plate will not encourage them to eat. It will stop them dead in their tracks. If the poor thing is actually beginning to recover from anorexia, your comments (good or bad) about their body may jeopardize their recovery and their health. Drawing attention to a small person's frame will only make them self conscious, and no, it isn't a compliment regardless of your intention. Find something else to talk about. Other people's bodies and eating habits should be off limits.

Honestly, there are no easy answers and no quick fixes with mental health. Admission might seem like the best idea from a distance, but if the hospital is already overbooked they probably don't have the staff to really help her or even monitor her well. The last thing she needs is to be separated from her support system and left to stew in her negative thoughts for hours. If she already has a therapist and psychiatrist, that is where she will receive log-term assistance. Since the parents think she is safe until her next appointment, trust them. Since you can't fix the system, put your fix-it energy into supporting the parents as much as you can. Pray for the young lady, offer to bring over dinner or mail them some chocolate. It won't change things in big ways, but I'm sure they would appreciate the knowledge that you have their back.

So glad he is finally getting the MRI. Praying for him, and also asking for extra peace for you.

1931 Model A - Mileage probably close to infinity, but she still runs beautifully. Yes, she, her name is Penelope. :) Our other old cars have names too. We are weird about some things, and car persosonification happens to be one of them. My everyday car is nothing special.

Oh, and stay away from equipment labeled youth. At 17, she needs adult sizes.

Generally we size beginners by having them extend their arms straight forward and placing the nock on their sternum. The arrows need to extend a few inches longer than their fingertips in that position. If they are shorter than her arms they are dangerous, if they are a bit longer it won't matter at this stage. Since she is just starting, I wouldn't overthink it. The finger tab is non-negotiable. It prevents nerve damage to the fingers. The arm guard isn't "necessary" if your child has fantastic form, but string slap can leave nasty bruises, and turn a fun activity into a dreaded one. Even the olympic archers use them. Our club requires arm guards for all beginners, so don't cross them off your list without talking to the coach. Any size is fine as long as she can bend her wrist and elbow while wearing it.

Oh MiS, I'm sorry you felt so attacked that you needed to change name and delete your thoughts. I'm afraid we accidentally came across as piling on you, instead of supporting you. Your daughter is in the wrong. That probably hasn't been said enough here. You are being taken advantage of, and that is hurtful. Please don't take our suggestions as judgement - we just want to help you. Parenting is hard work.

Are you afraid? Your interactions with her sound like you are walking on egg-shells trying to somehow prevent her from growing up and moving far away (even though you really do want her to become a healthy mature adult). If so, I'd find a trusted mentor or therapist to share your fears with. Spend some time gathering your thoughts, crying, or whatever you need to do, but Hold strong in front of DD. She is using your tender heart and giving nature against you. Personally, I'd tell DD that I was trading the bathroom chore (which we all know she wouldn't ever do any way) for laundry because she wasn't completing it in a timely manner. She might not like it, but doing her own laundry won't seem random or like an attack - it is a fair trade of one chore for another. Have you ever researched co-dependency? I have no idea if this applies to your situation, but it might be worth reading about.

The flu mis-diagnosis isn't fun, but sadly misdiagnoses happen sometimes. The treatment for a fall and all the rest of the hospital confusion, on the other hand, doesn't make any sense at all. Either your mom isn't telling you something, or there must be some really horrible record handling going on at that hospital. If her follow-up with her primary care doesn't make sense of things, I'd contact the hospital social services department and see if they can help you. If you still don't get a decent explanation, or feel like they aren't taking things seriously, you can always get in touch with the Joint Commission www.jointcommission.org. They are in charge of hospital accreditation, and are the ones who can put the fear of God into facilities so that necessary changes happen sooner rather than later. Just e-mail complaint@jointcommission.org with the facility name, and the details you shared here. I'm so sorry your Mom had to go through that.