:iagree: 100% When we went through this a year ago, I was surprised by who was, and was not there for us. Some people, who were casual acquaintances, really reached out to us, and that was greatly appreciated. And one thing I would add - keep asking the person how they are doing, even months after their loved one has passed. Grief is a long process, and it is comforting to know others are continuing to think of you.