I am not a Christian, but I disagree with Tibbie. I appreciate these types of sentiments coming from other Christians, even if they have no culpability for the actions at issue. Whenever there is some Muslim fundamentalist terror attack, people are quick to say, "Where are the other Muslims who condemn these actions?" (Of course, there are plenty.) As others have pointed out, people are leaving the church in droves, in part because they are sick of the kind of hypocrisy displayed by the Duggars. I appreciate Christians like Entropymama who stand up and say, "This is not OK. I am so sorry that this happened." I appreciate it very much.
As for baptizing children, I was raised Catholic, and was baptized as a baby. I never made my first communion because I knew that I was not a Christian. In Judaism, children are not responsible for the commandments until they have their bar/bat mitzvah at age 12 or 13. I much prefer this age for these types of choices. I have always told my son that I am giving him a Jewish education, but that matters of faith are personal decisions. I was a Jew by choice, and I want my children to be as well.