DH developed an allergy to shellfish when he was @30. Some children can outgrow their allergies. Others, as adults, may be used to navigating around them and thus it doesn't come up in conversation. We had a dear friend with celiac. She avoided potlucks, etc. But, she didn't like to talk about it. She only told us because my DS had allergies- common ground.

When you are at the bottom, rest for a moment and then climb. Step by step, you rise higher. :grouphug:

This is a link to all the NPR articles on health care, but there are a few that specifically discuss the rate hikes: http://www.npr.org/tags/126952399/health-insurance

Thank you for sharing this information. I haven't had time to look into the matter but was disturbed by the outcome. I suppose the prosecutor didn't want to go with lower charges, hoping that the jury would be forced to convict on the higher ones. Sounds like a case of failed gamesmanship.

Net benefit probably depends on one's expenses and tax bracket. I only get to keep about 2/3 of what I earn after my business expenses. I work as an independent contractor, so those expenses are deductible. Then I have to pay taxes. But, we do end up with some $ in pocket when all is said and done. My work doesn't require me to leave the house. Note, that even if the net is zero. It still allows you to build up a work history and references. I initially started working when DH took a temporary pay cut due to a medical issue. A year later, we can face another pending complication with the confidence that I can do something to supplement our income if and when need. I also have a year of references and work examples to show prospects. We all have to start somewhere. I am definitely making more per hour now than I did a year ago.

She basically has a skin burn caused by the chemicals in the acne cream. It will heal like a sunburn does. But you are now dealing with very delicate, damaged skin.

Here are a few research items I found: http://www.acne.org/messageboard/topic/308882-are-my-acne-products-causing-this-rash-pictures/ http://clearclinic.com/how-to-treat-skin-thats-become-irritated-from-acne-medications/ http://www.annmariegianni.com/ingredient-watch-list-salicylic-acid-it-may-dry-and-thin-your-skin/ More serious allergic reaction: http://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/acne/news/20140625/some-acne-products-can-trigger-severe-allergic-reactions-fda#1

The intense acne treatments usually have some mild acidic ingredient to get rid of the bacteria and dead skin cells. I would just use the hydrocortisone and let the skin heal. Do the least possible. (Though Benadryl shouldn't hurt.) If you look online, you may find others who have experienced skin reactions to the creams. That will allow you to confirm the cause. Be cautious about over-doing it with the hc on her face. It will thin the skin over time. Just a light coating to get the skin to heal and then leave it be.

No. But Canada is more open to acupuncture than the U.S. I would suggest you look at research resources outside the U.S. for information.

Um... OK. Hey, everybody else, enjoy reading the recent research on the topic of ASD and ADHD. :rolleyes:

Seasonal hires are already ramping up. I've seen Amazon postings for cities in which they have warehouses. Local stores will be hiring, too. (I make $ freelancing as a writer.)

http://neurosciencenews.com/adhd-autism-psychology-5381/

I was surprised by the outcome, but haven't read up on the facts re: charges brought, etc.

Breathing issues can turn very bad very fast. Take her to the doctor. :grouphug:

Some tips: http://blog.teamtreehouse.com/introduction-making-websites-wordpress DH set up mine. But I know many people hire freelancers. I can't recommend anyone as that's not my field.

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Prob high IQ with ADHD, it can be a challenge. FWIW, despite whatever the studies say, we don't live by structure here. I guess I'll see how it turns out. ; )

Because if I think my kid is willfully deceiving me and I don't do something to repair the situation, then I'm not parenting. I used the phrase "capable of deceit" to be polite. The OP, stated that she thought her ASD kid was acting (i.e. fooling her) frequently. She doesn't trust her own child, but this guy she's never actually met is a "boyfriend." I think I must be pretty far outside the norm. My kids may lie to me, but if I know that they are doing so, I'm going to pay attention and try to help them. Are you telling me that most parents whose kids consistently act or fool the parent are looking to address that issue in a positive way? Do they just label the child deceitful and go on with their lives?

Now that I have a little more time... If ASD has not manifested with problematic behavior, it can be very easy to ignore it as a root cause of issues as they come up. But what I have learned is that the ASD is always there. The difference thinking patterns are always going to have an influence on the child. Also, all three of my children who have passed the age 10 milestone, NT or not, have had major personality adjustments at that time. Understanding where your child is coming from rather than just reacting to the external manifestations of whatever he or she is feeling is essential. You can't punish a child out of feelings and thoughts. From reading your post, it seems like you are willing to trust a stranger online but believe your own child is capable of deceit. To me, this says you are more invested in one of those people than the other. If my relationship had broken with my child to the point where she left me, I'd drop everything else to work on fixing it. That is a reflection of my personal value system and deeply held beliefs- which I am painfully aware that others don't share. It will be up to you to decide what your own priorities are and focus on those.

FWIW, my 6 y.o. is not writing at all yet (prob ASD). But, he out maths his 12 y.o. sis and out reads his 11 y.o. brother. Do focus on teaching each subject, but don't allow limits in one subject to limit the others. :001_smile:

I would say he is ready to learn to ready. He's told you so. Each time you read a book, teach him a few words in it. Read ABC books and use the phonetic sounds for a few new letters each time you read through it.

:iagree: :iagree: :iagree: :iagree: Focus on your child and get help that addresses her specific needs.

DH will hopefully turn his hobby into a little income once he retires from his day job. He has a few post-retirement irons in the fire. I have just found my niche doing all the things I've enjoyed about various other jobs through the years. I now get to combine my creativity, natural skill set, and management skills all in one job. Plus, I am self-employed, so I'm the captain of the ship. I like that. : ) I tried having a craft business in the past. I enjoyed everything except for the fact that it wasn't profitable. I will probably give away a lot of unsold inventory from that experiment. But I enjoyed the hobby and learned some things. The main thing I learned is to not spend ahead of the proof. I know the items I created were of good quality and unique, but the market wasn't there. In another town or another time, things might have gone differently. But I invested in quality materials that outpaced my sales, and now I have leftover materials and product. For my current gig, I am much more realistic about paying for things as I go. I still reinvest in my business, but I invest with money I've already earned rather than accruing debt. The combination of skills DH and I have acquired through our previous jobs and continue to acquire through our hobbies are all things we can pass on to our children. I love that the things I learn now can be used to launch them toward doing something they love in the future.

If you can't get counseling for yourself, could you see someone to determine if an antidepressant or other medication would help? Also, I think ages 7-14 are the most challenging for ASD because the child's brain is developing so quickly. Give yourself permission to relax on things that aren't necessities. :grouphug:

Thanks! My boys like Brain Games, too. Coursera has offered some interesting classes on the topic in the past. We also enjoy some of the materials published by The Great Courses.