My dd has taken piano from the local elementary school music teacher for the last several years. She is in high demand and we were lucky to get a spot with her. The first years were good, but last year was a real disappointment. Her parents have been having lots of medical problems, and she has been under lots of stress. She also had surgery last spring. Anyway, we ended up having lessons once or twice a month, instead of weekly. Dd said she would sometimes start crying in the middle of a lesson, and was irritable and crabby much of the time. I spoke to her several times and she was definitely distracted and not her usual self. I have no hard feelings towards her and I'm sorry things have been so difficult, but her situation hasn't changed and I anticipate the same problems this year. I know she has lost several long-term students this year, so I don't think I'm overestimating how much this has affected her teaching.
Dd really wants a new piano teacher. I sent an email last night telling Mrs. B thanks for all her hard work, but dd has decided not to continue lessons. I hoped that would be the end of it, but this morning I had an email from her:
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I hate these kind of situations. She really is a nice lady and I don't want to hurt her feelings. Telling her that her personal situation is interfering with her teaching makes me feel like a cold-hearted b****.
DD's out of town this weekend and I haven't talked to her yet, but I'm sure she will *NOT* be comfortable talking to her.
What would you say?
I'm going to leave the email up for a few hours, then edit it out. I'd be horrified if Mrs B ever saw it.