Oh...there are SOOO many options!!! :)
- Hire a doula. The research speaks for itself.
- Read everything you can get your hands on!! I have a book/website recommendation list I can email you if you like.
- Take a class that teaches about natural birth (don't take a hospital class!). There have been some great suggestions here already (i.e. Bradley). See what's in your area, research the different types and decide what's best for you. Most out there that teach natural birth are excellent!
- Hydrotherapy. You'll have to ask your dr or doula about this as you may only have the option of the shower. And if you have that, you probably won't be able to be in there long b/c they will want you on the fetal monitor. Most hospitals don't have tubs to labor in, but yours might. And if they do it's very likely you will not be able to birth there.
- Be active during labor. Even if you are on the fetal monitor you CAN be active..it doesn't mean you'll be tied to the bed.
- Learn about comfort measures. This includes your husband. If/When you hire a doula she can help teach you these things.
- Learn about and practice relaxation methods now. Practice very day. Again, this is something a doula can help you with.
- Make sure you spend time during your pregnancy surrounding yourself with the positive. The mind-body connection is VERY strong during pregnancy, labor, and birth. Making sure you are prepared mentally/emotionally will be a huge help in achieving a natural birth.
- If you want meds but don't want an epidural, many women choose Stadol. You can't have it when you are very close to delivery (it's a narcotic and will cause respiratory distress in the baby). It will not take all of the pain away but may help take the edge off. It only lasts about 45mins-1hr. Beware though, some women don't handle it well and feel very odd.
HTH!