My dd6 is VERY stubborn as well. I have tried this technique to see if it would work because she loves her tv and computer time. When I tell her she has lost ________ privilege for x amount of days she walks to the calendar and says "so, uh...that means I'll be allowed on the computer next Wednesday?" Then she will mark it on the calendar.:glare: Also I have tried the donating toys to charity. After I have asked multiple times for them to be put away I will say that any left out will be packed and donated to charity no exceptions. Last time she went and got the bag and helped me fill it.:001_huh: Seriously, how do you deal with a child like this?