emeraldjoy Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 and myself. She is struggling with homrones, etc. No physical signs yet, but what I am learning on these boards the hormones kick in a few years before the full transition. I need a book that we can read together or that I can read and talk to her about the basics. The order of things, etc. What we all should be expecting. I know in a way; after all I went through it; but I think there is a lot I don't know and I did not have someone to walk me through. It was just all about period...none of the other issues (especially emotional) were ever discussed. I would love to normalize this for her (and us). Thanks so much. Emerald Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klmama Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Have you ever looked at Preparing for Adolescence by James Dobson? It spends a lot of time on the emotional changes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elizabeth Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 http://www.amazon.com/Care-Keeping-You-American-Library/dp/1562476661 I loved this book very scientifically sound, not too graphic and availible at any large bookseller. It has clear drawings of body structures that were most helpful when discussing the proper use of tampons. I generally do not like American Girl fiction, I find them trite so it was a stretch for me to take this suggestion and look at the book. I really thought it was just right for dd at the time. FWIW she found it informative without being cutesy. Just common sense information with a minimum of commentary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alphabetika Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 I second The Care and Keeping book by American Girl. I, too, don't care for most American Girl stuff, but this was just right for my dd. I asked her if she'd like to hear everything from me or if she'd like to read a book and then ask me questions. She chose the 2nd, which I knew she would. The book has a positive, matter-of-fact tone that I appreciate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kareni Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 And a third vote for The Care & Keeping of You: The Body Book for Girls. It's nicely matter of fact. Regards, Kareni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom31257 Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 4th vote for Care and Keeping of You. It is a wonderful book! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 I guess I need to pick up this book before I just shoot my 10 year old. Could it be that she's seriously hormonal already??? We don't even eat "early trigger" foods! Ugggghhhhh! I did not want to deal with this. Carrie:-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farmgirlinwv Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 I thought when I looked into "The Care and Keeping of You" it had information in it on m*sturb*tion. That's why I didn't get it. Is this the AG book? Anyway, make sure you read it before you give it to dd! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaT Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 My daughter started the emotional stuff at ten and actually started her period the month after she turned 11. We never read a book, but had lots of talks about what she was and would be experiencing - both emotionally and physically. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joannqn Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 There is no reference to s*x in any form in the book that I can find beyond a blurb that says your body is yours and yours alone and tell to an adult you trust if anyone touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable. Here's what is covered in the Table of Contents: Body Basics The Basic Facts Heads Up Hair Care Hair Scare Ears Eyes Mouth Braces Face Acne Sun Sense Body Talk: Skin Reach Hands Underarms Breasts Bras Body Talk: Breasts Belly Zone Shapes & Sizes Food Nutrition Eating Disorders Body Talk: Food Big Changes Pubic Area Period Body Talk: Period On the Go Legs Feet Fitness Sports Safety Rest Sleep Troubles Body Talk: Sleep The Girl Inside Your Feelings The Whole You If you want to know what is covered in a specific section, let me know. I have the book easily accessible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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