lynn Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 do you still bring a gift for the birthday child or just give a card? This child is dd classmate. The invite specifically asks for donations for lunches of love instead of gifts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethel Mertz Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 No to the gift. Yes (if you like) to the card. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimberly in IN Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 We almost always do birthdays with a request for a food bank donation instead of gifts for our dc parties and very much mean that ... no gifts, please, food donation in place of gift. Cards are optional. In our experience, we have found that girls tend to give cards, boys do not. (just saying in our experience, at our dc parties, not making any wide spread generalizations :) ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
displace Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Depending on the age we would not bring a gift but maybe a card or balloon, or maybe a book. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Stranger Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Don't bring a gift. We used to try to do this for fun causes my daughter enjoyed-- animals, library, etc, but everyone always felt they were special and brought gifts anyway. It really makes things awkward for everyone involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjand6more Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 When I say no gifts on invites, I really mean it! Definitely do the donation though. We have done this for a local ministry my daughter volunteers for. She felt SO special being able to give that donation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Don't bring a gift. But if you MUST give a gift, be discreet about it. Don't make others feel awkward for obeying the host's request. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenny in Florida Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Please don't bring a gift to a no-gifts-requested party. "Instead of" means "instead of." A card is nice, though, if you feel awkward going empty handed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joker Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Don't take a gift. It makes things awkward. Oldest requested a donations only party earlier this year and a few girls brought gifts. Dd refused to open anything while they were here out of respect for those who honored her wishes and didn't bring anything. It was just weird. A card is fine and she enjoyed them, but she felt unable to even open those since some were attached to gifts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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