I agree with Stacy. Many of these are things you would typically see in a dyslexic. On the other hand, they could be normal. I wouldn't advise her to do any testing, though. Instead, I'd recommend she use ABeCeDarian with BRI and the notched card, and join the Yahoo groups for each.
BRI
ABeCeDarian
If his issues are developmental and normal, he'll soon learn to read well with this approach. If he's dyslexic, he'll still learn to read with this approach, it just might take a little longer.