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My husband flew to see his mom yesterday. He is there now. They just switched her to "comfort care". Her doctors don't expect that she will last the day.

 

My husband was supposed to be on a plane later tonight so that he could get home to have a break before having to fly to the interviews on Monday. That isn't going to happen. He will get in tomorrow afternoon instead.

 

This isn't fair!!!!!

 

This isn't supposed to sound selfish. He needs to be there I am just incredibly sad and angry and everything that he is hurting and far away and I can't do anything.

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My husband flew to see his mom yesterday. He is there now. They just switched her to "comfort care". Her doctors don't expect that she will last the day.

 

My husband was supposed to be on a plane later tonight so that he could get home to have a break before having to fly to the interviews on Monday. That isn't going to happen. He will get in tomorrow afternoon instead.

 

This isn't fair!!!!!

 

This isn't supposed to sound selfish. He needs to be there I am just incredibly sad and angry and everything that he is hurting and far away and I can't do anything.

 

Oh, honey. I'm so sorry. :grouphug:

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She's gone. My husband and SIL were there. She isn't hurting anymore.

 

This is so hard. He is 1000 miles away and hurting and I can't help.

 

I'm so sorry. That's how I felt when DH's father died. I really regretted not going, but as is true in your case, going would have been pretty difficult under the circumstances - and probably wouldn't have helped him that much.

 

I'm glad he went. I know it must have been difficult (and still is).

 

((((((Jenne)))))))

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