fairfarmhand Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 do you and your spouse ever fight about nothing? You know what I mean, he says something (probably innocuous) and you take offense and say something back....the next day you wake up and think "Why did we spend so much time arguing about THAT!" yep....we do it here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn in OH Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 We spent the early years of our marriage doing that. Now that we are both older we don't fight about "nothing" so much anymore. But I do often wonder how a disagreement about a "small thing" turns into a big argument. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Usually once a month or so. :P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paula in PA Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Usually once a month or so. :P :D Same here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mejane Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Me: "Never." Husband, looking over my shoulder: "Yes, we do." :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giraffe Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Usually once a month or so. :P Same here too. DH has learned to just put on his armor about that time. And feed me chocolate. Seriously though, yes, we do. It's frustrating, because I've realized recently that it's my fault. I'm the one that loses it and escalates nothing into something. I really need to learn to calm down. I didn't used to be like this, don't know why I've started. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katemary63 Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 This happens sometimes in house. Why are people so critical and argumentative sometimes? I have no idea. Thank God for forgiveness. :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tess in the Burbs Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 we used to. And now we realize that usually we just aren't on the same page. It's been like that a lot lately. we usually look at each other when we are going back and forth, clarify our topic and laugh when we are always talking about different things, lol! communication has gotten better for us and avoided the fights Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aubrey Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Once we fought about a traffic sign--one thought it said "No right on red;" the other thought it said, "No right TURN on red." :001_huh: We've learned to drop things, but we still *start* the stupid arguments. So I guess it's improved, lol, but I think it's personality: tenacious, detail-oriented, first-born, obnoxious...:001_huh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Absolutely! :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SailorMom Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Not as much as we used to - but yeah - we still do occasionally:tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belacqua Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Not as much as we used to - but yeah - we still do occasionally:tongue_smilie: Interesting...we're the opposite. We hashed out all the substantive issues years ago, so now we're left with arguing about nothing. Of course, we prefer to call it "spirited discourse." :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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