If you already can't stand it, it's not for you. Find something you can all enjoy! deschool a bit, have fun, live life, explore, do hands on stuff, create, go on field trips, read good books, take a little more time researching a curriculum you might all really LIKE! :)
Also maybe check out meetup.com to see if there are any homeschool groups in your area so you guys can meet some people!
Welcome and good luck with everything!