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I've noticed this within our local hs groups, church and family.
Consequently the "hoverers" have produced one of two types of children, the fearful and the rebellious.
I've dealt with both of these types in the form of young adults.
Child A is fearful of everything and at the age of 20 is still clinging to their parents, still living at home and is unable to make decisions on their own.
Child B at the age of 18 is rebellious. According to Child B their parents are "Bible thumpers," everything they do revolves around the Bible, reading the Bible, and having a theology lesson. The child has attempted to talk with their parents about how they feel, but the parents are too busy reading their Bibles to take notice. Consequently Child B has rejected their parents "Christian faith" and is in the process of discovering who they are, what they believe/why/why it makes a difference. Child B can not wait until it is time to start college, when they can start thinking for themselves/making their own decisions.
As a pastor friend of mine has said "Parents need to insulate their children during the young years. As time goes by the parents need to peel the insulation off of their children so they will be able to function in the "real world."