I miss feeling proud of being an American.

Our kids both have the large Hemnes desks and we really like them. They are definitely sized for an adult, but my small 11 year old uses one too with no issues.

I think it's pretty accurate based on the picture of your life you've posted here and on numerous other threads. I hope you are able to get some help.

He passed away in the night. DH and his sister and mom were right with him. Thanks for all the kind thoughts.

I've been trying to figure out all day why this makes me so uncomfortable, and I just realized it's because it's an abusive pattern of behavior. Having "serious fights" with an 8 year old and then behaving "very sweetly" is a sign that counseling - both family and individual - is a good idea.

I'm glad to hear you found what you need!

It has been a hard year for so many people. I hope things improve soon - for you, and all of us.

My daughter (11) is thrilled with the idea. My son (18 this coming Sunday) is also happy, but we had planned to buy a house with a little apartment for him, and now I feel like we're looking for a unicorn of a house to accommodate everyone.

You're not thriving with it though...you've made a bunch of threads about being stressed, frustrated, yelling. You can change things without completely restructuring, but the situation sounds miserable. And you seem very resistant to any kind of suggestion that helps. My DD is profoundly gifted and we've had to change things many times over the years. Your daughter may be gifted, or not, but she is 8 and you are having screaming matches with her because you're so frustrated. It sounds to me like you need to change some things. But hey - keep doing what you're doing. I've seen what that looks like and the pushing and constant frustration can really ruin relationships.

Restructure, communicate, change expectations.

Lots to think about. I'm feeling kind of overwhelmed, and I wish we had more time. We always think we have more time.

Low blood sugar can cause really panicky, awful feelings of anxiety, depression and anger. The PB toast is a great idea. Make sure he eats small meals with some protein every couple/few hours and it should be much better.

That's what we are thinking - we'd like her to have her own bedroom/bathroom and a living room type situation. I stay home (one kiddo still at home full time) and DH works from home, so we're around enough that I don't think she will be lonely. But I do want her to feel she has her own space. It's a little tricky.

I was originally thinking of getting a house with an in-law apartment for her, but she has some confusion (not a ton) and we are thinking she will be very lonely. It's all still TBD I guess...just trying to get a sense of what it will look like. Thank you for sharing!

Hi We've received the horrible news that my father in law has only days to live. It is likely that my mother in law will move in with us (we plan to sell both houses and move to a new house to better accommodate the new situation). If you have done inter-generational living, what does that look like? What are ways we can help her to be as comfortable as possible? We currently live next door to each other, so we spend a fair amount of time together already...but we are trying to be prepared. Thanks

I do wonder if your teaching method simply isn't working for you anymore. Not every day needs to be a constant push for greater and greater achievement. An 8 year old is....8. A gifted child doesn't need to be pushed in order to be gifted. If you're experiencing constant frustration, sit down and work out a new school plan WITH your daughter. She may have some amazing ideas for her own education.

DD 11: art supplies DS 18 (in 6 days!): never asks for anything, so I have no clue

I understand. I'm sorry you're feeling like you need more, and at the same time feel that you can't have it. It hurts.

I'm so sorry Scarlett. Sending prayers for their recovery, as well as for you.

I was just wondering though - is it possible there's a physical reason for the whining? Stomach issues? Headaches?

Of course not. But it could still explain the whining.

Honestly, it's extremely rare for a toddler to be removed from a parent and not have attachment issues. The therapist may, however, not be that familiar with them.

Who is with him during the day? Do they also report constant whining? My daughter (who came to us with a reactive attachment disorder diagnosis) screamed at her previous foster homes incessantly. She did not do it here, but I attachment parented her 100% of the time until she had mostly healed.

Can you try wearing him?

Weekly (night before trash goes out) Freezer in garage - rarely, but I did it tonight because tomorrow is trash day