Danestress Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 I want to drop off something for my son and DIL tomorrow. I don't know what, though. I don't think it should be Christmas stuff (but tell me If you do think so!). DIL does not seem much of one for flowers/plants. They have two cats and a puppy, so I think it doesn't seem worth the bother to deal with animals knocking plants over. I have given them restaurant certificates in the past, but she is very particular about food ... which I only know from his comments - she does not let on at all! They both work odd hours so I don't want to buy tickets to an event because I never know what days they are working. I would like to keep it under $100. Something that says I love them and something that they both would like! And nothimg I have to order online because, of course, I waired until the last minute:). I am having a hard month and everything seems like 'too much' right now:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SharonM Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 I would give them the 100.00 and ask them to treat themselves. That way they can get what they like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farrar Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 How about a nice bottle of wine for them to celebrate with? I also think Christmas stuff is okay though. Like, it's your first married Christmas and you get a set of beautiful Christmas plates or something along those lines. People don't ask for that stuff in their wedding registry, but it's a cool "new household" sort of thing to have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeAndTheBoys Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 We have been married for 18 years. The first year, my mom bought us a lot of "sentimental" gifts--wall plaques with verses and stuff. I was the first child to marry-- Now that my 2 sibs are married, they simplified, and they give each of us a nice card and enough money to go out to dinner--$40 or so, usually. And they babysit my children. I love it--- Very sweet, and something we don't regularly do. B-- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 Nicely wrapped or inside a beautiful card with chocolates and cash (or a gift card) are always welcome. I love giving beautiful mugs filled with hot-coco fixings or specialty chocolate spoons. You can use them year after year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SebastianCat Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 Is this their 1st anniversary? If so, I'd consider looking back at their wedding registry and getting them something that they didn't receive for a wedding gift. Otherwise, I'd give them cash or a VISA gift card with a note saying you'd like them to pick out something for themselves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEmama Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 I don't have any suggestions, but I think it's great you are thinking about them on their special day. We just celebrated our 20th anniversary and not a single family member acknowledged it. My mother still treats DH like we just started dating; it's very weird and awkward. I'm sure they will appreciate knowing that you want to honor their marriage. Very thoughtful of you, Danestress! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynn Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 In this case I think gift of money is appropriate. Presented with nice chocolate or wine? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.