Virg Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 (edited) This last week my DSS14 came forward and told us that before we had custody (his bio mom was on the lam with him) that he was abused. We called the police and they had the child abuse experts do a full evaluation and taped interview. It turns out it was incredibly extensive and we are all reeling. I don't know what else to say except please keep us in your thoughts and prayers. Edited February 1, 2011 by ds4159 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OregonNative Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 WOW! This must have rocked your world:001_huh: I am praying for all involved:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfgivas Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 :grouphug: it says a lot about your relationship with him that he came forward and told you. its not anything you ever want to hear, but if its happened, its better for the light to shine on it and help heal it as far as it can be healed. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurie4b Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 :grouphug: it says a lot about your relationship with him that he came forward and told you. its not anything you ever want to hear, but if its happened, its better for the light to shine on it and help heal it as far as it can be healed. :grouphug: I agree. So sorry for his pain and yours. Glad that he is on the road to healing. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gingersmom Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virg Posted February 1, 2011 Author Share Posted February 1, 2011 Yes, thank you. DSS actually seems to be doing better than any of us, says he feels so relieved that he doesn't have to hide it from us anymore. We, on the other hand, are in so much pain. The road ahead, with a trial and lots of therapy, just seems so daunting ATM. My DH is obviously struggling with a lot of anger. I want to cry all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted February 2, 2011 Share Posted February 2, 2011 :grouphug: Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted February 2, 2011 Share Posted February 2, 2011 Praying for you all. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted February 2, 2011 Share Posted February 2, 2011 Thoughts and prayers. I know how heartbreaking this is. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simka2 Posted February 2, 2011 Share Posted February 2, 2011 I'm so sorry you guys!!! Please, consider getting your own counselor...your anger and pain is valid and needs to be dealt with. It is very hard to come forward with this info, I am so glad he did!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleIzumi Posted February 2, 2011 Share Posted February 2, 2011 Praying!!!! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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