Yes, I believe you did.
I 100% disagree with this. I believe in the principles of TWTM & I'm here because I think it's a very valuable resource/community in educating my children. But classical education isn't everything. I have a feeling that you & I would define success for our children very differently.
You know, back to your OP, I don't know why the HS community is held to a different standard. People of all kinds fail. All parents fail their children in some way - nobody's perfect. Why would the HS community be any different? There isn't any "enabling" going on - it's just reality.