i wish i could joke back. then hell say im disrespectful. arg. yeah its a cultral thing, im sure it is, but its just so uncalled for. like i need to hear that when my kids skin is bleeding, we cant find a cure or cause for the excema, dd is loosing her pigment and its not vitiligo. its just, i got a full plate. i dont need to hear it sometimes. but, i relax and do what my new guide tell me, to pray. i pray for everyone now :)