Tibbie, what does your husband do for a living? What is his job?
My boys are all 12 and under so take this for what it's worth. Dh works for himself. He is a blue collar worker. he does heating, a/c, electrical, construction and does all around handyman stuff. He literally can fix anything in a house. No exaggeration. We are equally blessed because in the 9 years that he has been working on his own he has never had a day where he wakes up and has no work. That is huge.
We have talked about this extensively. We feel we will be happy with whatever our boys decide for their future career. BUT they will be taught everything my husband can teach them. My 12 year old goes to work with DH at least 3 times a month. When he is 13 he will go with dh at least one day of week. Between all of his school and work he will be busy.
We want our boys to know everything possible that dh can teach them. That way they have options. They can choose to work in that field and put themselves through college and take care of any family that they have or they can choose to go permenantly in that field. Regardless if they choose to become an accountant they will be able to save themseles thousands by fixing their own home.
DH will teach them and apprentice them, they of course will have to get licensed when the time comes.
I also want them to learn a strong work ethic young. DH grew up on a farm, he has amazing work ethic. The guy gets up everyday rain or shine, sick or depressed and hustles. I want my boys to learn that. Not sure if that is teachable at this point.