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5 year old son is still complaining about "hurting".... ideas?


AimeeM
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Yeah - he's about 30 lbs at age 5. I can't see any learning disabilities at the moment - he is pretty academically advanced, if anything, but I do know that the Endo was concerned that if it is Noonan's, it wouldn't necessarily be dx'd as "mild" because of the heart/lung/vascular defects (which I guess can also come along with Noonan's). Nothing big, he said, just that he may require a bit more monitoring.

My ds was born with pulmonary stenosis, 3 VSDs, and a narrowing of the pulmonary artery, he also a bleeding disorder.

 

"Mild" is relative I guess.

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My ds was born with pulmonary stenosis, 3 VSDs, and a narrowing of the pulmonary artery, he also a bleeding disorder.

 

"Mild" is relative I guess.

 

The endo didn't know a ton about it, to be fair, lol. After looking at some sites, I have to agree with you that if my DS does have Noonan's, his is certainly mild.

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Yep. His teeth are terrible.

 

He had dental surgery when he was two!! A lot of kids don't even see a dentist by that age. I would estimate his teeth have cost us about $5,000 even with regular brushing. He is only six! AAAH!

 

I feel you. Nico went in before his main DX, and his teeth were "perfect" - he was one; by the time he was two, he had six cavities. Now, at five, we just put down $1500 for two more procedures - total was actually over 3K for this one, but we have fantastic dental insurance, which covered 90% of almost everything, but NONE of the sedation, and minimal for the partial that is being cemented in, so our portion is $1500. Fun times. Sorry y'all are dealing the dental fun too :(

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I feel you. Nico went in before his main DX, and his teeth were "perfect" - he was one; by the time he was two, he had six cavities. Now, at five, we just put down $1500 for two more procedures - total was actually over 3K for this one, but we have fantastic dental insurance, which covered 90% of almost everything, but NONE of the sedation, and minimal for the partial that is being cemented in, so our portion is $1500. Fun times. Sorry y'all are dealing the dental fun too :(

Oh I hear ya, the sedation is ONLY $475 sure no problem! Then they want to do things in two procedures instead of one.  :glare:

 

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Oh I hear ya, the sedation is ONLY $475 sure no problem! Then they want to do things in two procedures instead of one.  :glare:

 

:(

 

I know! Lol. He has to have two procedures. The hygenist even told me that it would take longer for the sedation to work, than the procedure takes! And two types of sedation? Oral sedative AND laughing gas?

 

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My middle son was diagnosed with Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis at age 4, after going from one specialist & appointment to another.  Starting at age two, he would hold his knees and cry because of the pain.  His other pain points are his ankles & back.  He was also lethargic, pale, had dark circles,  and had what we called "sad eyes".  Just not much joy in them, which is understandable with chronic pain.  It was rare that he had joint swelling, and his lab work is also always inconclusive--but I think that's genetic because I have an autoimmune liver disease and my autoimmune markers don't present "correctly" with the lab work.  

All this to say, take him to the doctor.  I know what it's like to feel like you're chasing your tail, but it's not "normal" for a kid to complain of pain consistently.  If it is an autoimmune thing, there are meds that can help.

 

:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

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Are you dealing with a big children's hospital? Or lots of different offices?

 

Both, kind of. We have a pretty large, great children's hospital here, and all of the specialists are housed on campus at the children's outpatient building. His cardio, pulmonary, endocrinologist, etc are all housed together there, and all are with the children's hospital.

 

ETA: "Large" is relative, I suppose. I live in a smallish city, and there tends to only be one or two specialists per speciality field. His pulmonary is one of only two peds pulms, the peds endo is the only, the peds cardio is, I think, one of two, etc.

 

Worst case scenario is that my mother does live near Emory, and I could probably get him in there, if need be.

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Not to beat a dead horse, but it really sounds like something genetic to me. Nothing I can pinpoint off the top of my head, but the variety of symptoms and atypical features such as the large head really scream genetic to me. I hope you will be able to get some answers from them! Even if you don't, as I'm sure they'll tell you, genetics is a constantly expanding field. The technology and knowledge is moving so quickly, even if they can't identify something now, if you go back in a few years the tests and knowledge may have evolved to the point you can get a diagnosis.

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