shanvan Posted March 12, 2014 Share Posted March 12, 2014 I need an outlet today. We've been going through a rough time with unemployment and Dh starting a new job that pays so much less. I've been helping him write his cover letters and thank you letters after interviews (he's still looking for a better job). I've also had to spend a lot more time in the kitchen and meal planning in order to stick to our strict budget. I won't go into all of the things I have to do for the kids for school and extracurricuars. I also need to start looking for work as a tutor soon. I am not really upset about it b/c I think it is going to lead into what I'll do once the dc are done homeschooling, but I am frustrated about not being able to devote my energies (what little I have) to it b/c of all the other things I need to deal with. I just wish I had the stamina to deal with it all. Yesterday I was nominated to the board of a local organization and I am honored, but here I am facing the morning and feeling like I cannot enjoy things like I should b/c I don't have the energy and I am in pain from a flare (fibro) which was brought on by staying up very late to help my Dh. I know better than to go down the road of 'if only..' b/c I have to deal with reality, but it stinks that pain and lack of energy is sapping my enjoyment. Off to dump the list in my brain on paper, prioritize and face what I can realistically do. Getting in the shower to see if that helps. Done venting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorthwestMom Posted March 12, 2014 Share Posted March 12, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I'd be frustrated too. I hope you feel better soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted March 12, 2014 Share Posted March 12, 2014 ((Shannon)) I understand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrn Posted March 12, 2014 Share Posted March 12, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbmamaz Posted March 12, 2014 Share Posted March 12, 2014 I'm always impressed with people who have fibro or similar things and do so much more than I do! I am easily overwhelmed and have accepted there are severe limits to what I can accomplish. Its hard and frustrating! Good reasons to vent, for sure. Hope everything falls in to place for you all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shanvan Posted March 13, 2014 Author Share Posted March 13, 2014 Thanks everyone. I am starting to feel better. I just took the day very slowly and a hot shower and stretching helped. I got some things accomplished and the rest has to wait. Pain in my back and legs has subsided and my shoulders are a little better. Still have lingering issues in my arms, but even that has died down some. Praying for a good night of sleep. Thanks for listening to my vent. It helped. :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halcyon Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Hugs to you. I have a mild chronic illness but even with that, i have to be very watchful of my commitments or i get overwhelmed. My thoughts are with you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTaelon Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 *hugs* I understand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trulycrabby Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Oh boy, do I understand how you feel! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSmomof2 Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 ((((Hugs)))) I also have fibro and completely understand.....hope you keep feeling better. It is hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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