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  1. The Oz books were some of my favorite books when I was little! I've read them to all four of my kids at various ages, and can't think of any scary parts. (Not scarier than Wizard of Oz, anyway.) Some are (imo) just better or more interesting than others, however. My favorite sequels are Ozma of Oz, Rinkitink in Oz, and The Emerald City of Oz.
  2. I too would gently suggest that you see a pulmonologist. Quite possibly a cardiologist as well. This has been an issue for many, many years now, and it sounds like a very minimal work up at best has been done. I think you owe it to yourself to get some more answers, and it is likely that you will need to see a specialist to do that. It is possible that the military doctors were completely wrong, but it is also possible that this most recent doctor was wrong.
  3. Creekland, I do hope you get some answers soon. You've gotten some great suggestions here, but of course the next step is to see a doctor. I don't know if you had time to look into pulmonary hypertension, but here is the quick summary directly from the Mayo Clinic website. I'll post it here for you and as a general PSA, since the disease is not widely known: SymptomsThe signs and symptoms of pulmonary hypertension in its early stages might not be noticeable for months or even years. As the disease progresses, symptoms become worse. Pulmonary hypertension symptoms include: Shortness of breath (dyspnea), initially while exercising and eventually while at rest Fatigue Dizziness or fainting spells (syncope) Chest pressure or pain Swelling (edema) in your ankles, legs and eventually in your abdomen (ascites) Bluish color to your lips and skin (cyanosis) Racing pulse or heart palpitations Again, I wouldn't presume to diagnose you . . . but pulmonary hypertension could explain the years of (otherwise unexplainable) shortness of breath when you are otherwise healthy. Of course, there are *many* possible causes of that. I truly wish you the best in getting answers, and hope you'll report back here to let us know. Hugs!
  4. I was coming on to recommend the exact same food! My two dogs love it, and I feel pretty darn good about feeding it. The company is well regarded and uses quality ingredients.
  5. One more possibility to rule out would be pulmonary hypertension. I have an extended family member who specializes in that disease; I'm no expert myself, but I do know that it 1) COULD explain what you are describing and 2) is notoriously hard to diagnose. I too would gently encourage you to see a doctor and see if you can't get some answers. Good luck!
  6. It sounds like you are going in with many factors in your favor. Three close friends and a great tutor are HUGE! Hope you all have a great year. :)
  7. Really enjoying this discussion, as we are wrapping up 5th grade with my daughter and starting to contemplate our plans for 7th grade and beyond. We've just finished our second year with CC (foundations and essentials), and it has been an imperfect fit for us. There are so MANY lovely aspects of the program, and others that drive me completely batty! :) Having homeschooled for 15+ years and graduated 2 students, I am plenty confident in my ability to homeschool. I don't "need" CC or any other co-op group, except for the fellowship aspect, which cannot (or should not) be overlooked completely. And we haven't had any luck at all in finding a regular, sustained fellowship group in any other way. I know, because we tried it on our own when we moved to the area. As I research the details of Challenge, I am struck again by the impression that there are parts of the program that are a great fit for us, and others that are distinctly not. In a perfect world, I would start my own co-op, but this isn't my season of life to do something like that (extended family responsibilities). So it all boils down to this: should we enroll in Challenge because it is pretty much the only game in town, and does have many lovely components? Or is it such an imperfect fit that I am setting us up for failure? No easy answers!
  8. I understand a lot of your situation, as a former military wife whose husband recently retired after 20 years. We spent the last of those 11 years stationed in Hawai'i, and when we moved there we had to transfer my eldest daughter into orthodontics. Luckily, our dentist on the mainland had a recommendation for us. Long story short, we interviewed that orthodontist (as well as one other) and went with him - Steven Tottori in Kapolei, on the west side of Oahu. He did a beautiful job with both my eldest and our second daughter . . . complete round of braces for each. I have sent other patients to him as well, who were happy with him. Just in case this helps. I have no affiliation with Dr. Tottori, but am just trying to share a recommendation if it helps. I'm a big fan of trying to keep the family together. I was never the world's biggest fan of Hawai'i, and was ready to leave after 11 years, but it was a wonderful adventure to live there. All four of my kids have extremely fond memories of their time there. Best wishes to you, and let me know if I can help with any questions.
  9. Our first collie was around 75 pounds. Luckily, we got her as a youth (9 months old), and the breeder had warned me that collies had an iron bladder. When we did a massive road trip with her several months later, we became incredibly stressed when we realized she was going to the bathroom VERY infrequently. We would give her opportunities every 2 hours or so, but she ended up going only once every 24 hours. Never an accident . . . she just simply wouldn't go except once every day. One year we moved to the Minneapolis area and spent a single winter there with her. When it got to be miserably cold, she would simply refuse to go outside except once daily. I could open the door for her 10 times throughout the day, but she would just give us a dirty look and refuse to cross the threshold. Once every morning, she would zoom outside, do all her business, and be back inside within about 2 minutes flat. :lol:
  10. (edited) My original post was deliberately obscure in order to keep things non-specific and non-identifiable . . . but it ended up being incomprehensible as a result! Oh well, hopefully typing it all out released some frustration. :)
  11. For the record, I agree with this statement too. I was fortunate to get a truly excellent public school education, but I realize that public school opportunities are extremely variable, both then and now. And likewise, I've never thought that homeschooling was an inevitable guarantee of a superlative education.
  12. My feelings would have been hurt too, and I agree that your neighbor's post was unnecessarily inflammatory and offensive. I'm glad that you'll be able to maintain your friendship with his wife, and I would encourage you to extend as much grace as possible to the neighbor. Sometimes, these things take many years to reverse. Sometimes they'll never reverse at all, and that's ok. Just keep giving your children the best education you can, and remember that this is a marathon - not a sprint. The results of your homeschooling will take a long, long time to become apparent, but they will eventually bear fruit. I too am fortunate enough to have some serious perspective at this point. But when I was a brand new homeschooler, full of unspoken doubts and insecurities, I was cornered by someone in my husband's profession, someone who was literally at the top of his field and extremely well educated and respected. He flat out told me that I was crazy to be homeschooling my children and would very likely ruin them. Outwardly I remained calm, but inwardly I was devastated. Against all odds, we remained in touch through the years and would get together in person every year or so. He and my husband maintained a very warm professional relationship. And slowly, my young elementary age children grew and absolutely prospered as we homeschooled. Our friend has watched their progress with interest that morphed into enthusiasm; both are confident, articulate young ladies who attended university on merit scholarships and are now young professionals. This same person who warned me that I was ruining my kids by homeschooling them has done a complete 180, and now speaks admiringly about the benefits of home education! (And I respect him very much for being a big enough person to change his mind so completely and graciously.) This may or may not ever happen with your neighbor . . . but it doesn't really matter. Just keep doing your best, and one day the results will speak for themselves!
  13. I agree with the others. I like IEW very much, but would suggest waiting until 3rd (at the earliest), and probably 4th to begin. Writing With Ease 1 would be the perfect program to use. Very gentle but effective, and will build many important pre-writing skills. And I'm also a huge fan of AAR; it's a fantastic program. We're wrapping up AAR 4 with my rising 3rd and 4th graders this year, and have used it all the way through. Just an excellent curriculum! Feel free to modify it according to what works for you and your son. We haven't used the letter tiles past maybe Level 1. We read every word on the fluency sheets, but don't use the word cards at all. Your mileage may vary. Find what fits you, and keep the bones of the program. Good luck!
  14. I agree with every word . . . we got our first purebred collie in 1999 and are now on our second one. Collies are magnificent dogs. Our first one was almost literally perfect. Our current one is great but happens to be barky/easily excitable. They are almost always gentle, smart dogs that are excellent with kids, but of course there is some personality variation amongst them as individuals. Good luck! ps - Our first collie breeder, who was extremely experienced with the breed, had both rough and smooth collies. She explained to us that they were identical except for their hair length. HTH.
  15. Great invention, agreed. But a gentle reminder: make very sure you finish any prescribed antibiotics, despite feeling normal again. I worked with a young woman once who was prescribed antibiotics and pyridium for a UTI. She felt fantastically normal again after a day or so, and thought she was being conservative in discontinuing her antibiotics. The infection roared back, but she didn't feel the effects . . . until she got horribly ill from a raging septic infection. She had to be hospitalized and everything. As you can imagine, that made quite an impression on me!
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