But it does matter, for several reasons:
1. If the mother has spoken to the daughter about it and she did it anyway, then the burden of making amends needs to fall primarily on the daughter.
2. If the mother has NOT spoken to the daughter about it, the burden of making amends should fall primarily on the mother.
3. Either way, the girl shouldn't be picking people up without their consent, so that's a conversation that needs to happen and repercussions for violating that made clear.