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  1. I just wanted to pop back in and say thank you so much to everyone who posted, especially those who posted personal experiences. I have read and reread everything, and I’m just so grateful. Your kindness has immeasurably encouraged me and your wisdom has given me much to ponder and work on. I have a perspective that I lacked before and I feel more hopeful than I have in a long time.
  2. I’m inferring too, but I’m pretty sure I’m right. I just want to say I’m really glad that you are still around. I have learned much from your posts.
  3. Thank you for this! Lots of pertinent and thought provoking questions. Especially the biggie. I will be thinking about this. Thank you!
  4. Sorry! Deleted...too much personal info.
  5. I'm trying to reply to everyone but it's getting really overwhelming! I'm sorry if I don't respond to each of you individually but I really do appreciate everything you have said and the time you have taken to try to help. I especially appreciate the personal stories and the book recs. Thank you all so much.
  6. I'm really overwhelmed by the amount of time you all have put into trying to help me. I'm blown away by the kindness, so thank you! I'm sorry about being vague but I don't think giving more details will be necessarily helpful because of course I can never share the whole picture, only a one sided version and I don't think that is fair or helpful. hjffkj: yes, my greatest fear is that I will turn into a bitter resentful person over this and I definitely don't want to. I'm going to pray for opportunities for communication and for the ability to communicate in a gentle way that actuall
  7. I've lurked here off and on for a long time and I've learned so much here. Right now, I'm struggling in my marriage and I'd really appreciate any wisdom you can share. How do you adjust your expectations when you feel like certain needs of yours aren't being met, and your spouse is extremely unlikely to change? Communication has completely broken down and every time we try to talk about our issues it appears to make things worse because we really can't see each other's point of view. I'm starting to realize things will probably never get better. I just want to change my expectations and a
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